Ask me anything!
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Oh, this deserves a lengthy answer...but the shortest (and perhaps most trite) is love. Personally, I would say life, because everything would be meaningless without it. (:
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Yes, I do! And, what "honor" xP
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I would change something about myself...and perhaps I should've done something I didn't do. I shouldn't have given up and stuck with it. Oh, does time fly. Haha.
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Large company :) (depending on the job)
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"It's Over" by Lee Hi! But just as a disclaimer, I'm not a K-pop fanatic, so the song must be catchy!
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Love and acceptance. :)
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ohmykierra@gmail.com :) feel free to email anytime
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When will the site close down? I didn't hear anything about that :/
But, here's your answer (Warning: it's a lengthy response, but I put thought into it, so please read it! Just as a disclaimer, though, know that these are simply my thoughts and they may not always be correct or even logical. However, I do I try to give both sides of the argument as honestly as humanly possible. I hope you enjoy my response, nonetheless :] ):
The heart of the matter is, affection can't literally be "won". Even metaphorically speaking, it often takes more than effort, little or much. Thus, we establish that love is not created, but rather innate and developing.
That said, I believe in circumstance. In order to be able to "win a girl's heart", one must have the qualifications TO win it in the first place (i.e. fit her type). While appearances aren't the most important thing for most people, it truthfully is the ultimate thing that determines whether someone is a potential lover. Think first impressions. Statistics say that first impressions leave an everlasting impact. That being said, since you've already met her, she already has thoughts about you, good or bad.
Of course, the next step is the "action". I believe people should take steps to achieve what they want. For this, be confident and be yourself (even if you aren't the most confident person in the world; just be the confident you). Don't be shy and approach her if you haven't already. Be preemptive and talk to her! Obviously, charms are a must. Be funny and intelligent, but don't force anything. You know, just go with the flow!
Really, you know the whole gist of it. Be the best that you can be and charm her, one way or another; there's no one particular way because there are no two identical girls. Remember that love is a process, but it is one that is self-ameliorating. Love gets ever so sweeter time goes on. Don't be afraid of rejection, because that only means the girl was not the right one.
Oh, by the way, I hope I'm not too late in answering! I know the answer was rather inadequate, but as much as I wish I were a connoisseur at love, I will never be. Again, I tried weighing both sides of the argument. Hope you read through it!
- Kierra (: -
Hugs :) Don't get me wrong--I love kisses--but hugs, to me, are more special and more intimate than kisses in ways that I cannot explain in words <3
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This might be a bit (very) late. If you still haven't approached her, just say hi one day, casually! Or maybe talk to someone you know while that person is talking to the girl. Be confident and don't be shy! But remember to always be yourself. (:
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Hi! Yes, please email me at ohmykierra@gmail.com
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Kierra O.x’s Bio
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I love helping out with other people's problems, mostly because I don't find enough problems for myself, so feel free to complain to me or ask me for advice! I'll answer anything, though, so... ASK!

