If your SO told you you had to decide between them or your hobbies. What would you decide? And Why do you have them as an SO in the first place?
This is an ugly question and I do have to wonder if the person who asked it really cared about me or is just trying to stir the pot.
What would I do if I was told to choose? That's hard, because my SO and I have agreed to never do that to one another. I'd never ask him to quit wrestling, he'd never ask me to quit modeling or wrestling. We both understand the passion behind it and if you try to deny someone else that passion, it's like taking a piece of them away. I would have to seriously consider things because if the person is asking me to quit something I love for them...for no GOOD reason? Do they really love me?
The second half is because despite all the crap that goes on in reality, he fills in the voids. No one's perfect and I think if the person I think asked this question, I'm pretty sure you would know the answer better than anyone.
