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My Mum put me in swimming lessons when I was very young and so I started wearing a speedo from about the age of 5 or 6. I guess for me it seemed natural as well as being perfectly practical. How anybody would swim laps in board shorts is beyond me. However I got to high school and obviously wearing a speedo caused much joking and embarrassment. Guys around school used to call them meat hangers and all kinds of other names. Still they were practical and I insisted on wearing them for swimming. The members of my swimming squad all wore them and it was never a problem amongst that company. So my confidence came from the fact that I always wore them. I didn't really know any different.

Confidence is a funny thing. It's like a muscle, you have to work it out to make it stronger. There is no magic formula to become confident.

The quote on my desk calendar today says "Good looks have little to do with one's body and everything to do with one's mind".

I think it's very appropriate to this post. How you look in your speedo has everything to do with how you hold yourself in public. How you feel when you wear it, and owning it! Ok sure a great physique helps but what makes a great physique? Everybody likes something different.

I get asked a lot about my work-out routine. I am reluctant to give advice on this because I am not a trainer and bad advice can result in serious injury. If people are serious then they should speak to somebody more qualified. I will say that I go to the gym 4 or 5 times a week if I can and for about 9 months in Sydney worked consistently with an awesome trainer (anyone in Sydney who wants his details should email me). I do weights to build my shoulders, back, chest and arms. I used to swim to work my legs and get some cardio, but I have since gotten bored with swimming and now I like to ride my bike.

As far as wearing a speedo in public goes... start with something conservative. A plain black or blue speedo is the work horse of my wardrobe. They look like you mean business. Strut around like you have been swimming in the Olympics for years, own the place and nobody will care. It's all about location and context. Wearing your pink Cock Sox with the built in support and cock ring at the local pool will just get you arrested and that will dent you confidence for sure. Remember confidence is like a muscle. Start with a light workout wearing them around the house and nice low key pair at the pool and then slowly wear them more and more. You will love it I promise.

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When I started the blog I would only get 1 or 2 comments on a post. I find that for every hundred or so people who look only a hand full will leave comments. Don't be too worried about the number of comments. Remember write about what you care about and the people will come to you. You can encourage discussion by leaving topics open or asking questions. Your message will get out there but It takes time to build that momentum.

Yes. Not often because I am either too clueless to notice or most of my Girlfriends know I am Gay. I was working out in a hotel Gym once and woman who was working out followed me as I left and asked me in the lift if Iw anted to come back to her room. I politely told her I liked guys and she laughed and left. It was very flattering but it made me wonder if that has happened to many straight guys... makes me look at the penthouse forum letters a little differently now LOL

I have done it already! Amazing!

No, I always find the camera lenses scratch to much.

Love it, but like I always say sex is always better with somebody you love.

Yeh baby!

50-500mm

People who stand in doorways.

Canon

Confidence.

Whenever I can. :)

I don't think that my personality changes that much in the bedroom during sex. I think it changes depending on the individual or individuals I am with. It also depends on the context of the encounter, whether it's a tender moment with a lover a heaving sex pile. There are those of us that are more confident in the bedroom than others but I think that some of that comes with experience. I remember being quite nervous about sex. It's easy when you are exploring to feel uneasy about some of the more interesting activities that can be indulged in. But then some people just like it vanilla and thats okay too. I have met guys who have been quiet and unassuming and then been tigers in the sack and I have met guys who have been confident lions until their clothes came off.

My sexual personality (I guess we will call it for the purpose of answering this question) has evolved over time. My appetites have changed significantly since I first had sex. My sexual identity has grown as I have become more and more exposed to the variety of experience out there. Mostly I think it's because as I became more confident and more comfortable with holding myself and saying "no" that I am now able to say "yes".

Everybody has a sexual side. We are after all still animals at heart and the biological imperative to procreate is something we all feel. Knowing that my partner has a very sexual personality does make it hotter for me because I know that there is a smorgasbord of delight awaiting.

thanks :) I'd love to visit Canada some day.

When I go to the USA, my accent opens zippers where ever I am. :)

Thanks, it's always great to here from people who enjoy the blog. X