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      Sometimes admiration & inspiration from strong female influences can seem romantic. I know because I've fallen in love w/ my friends before only to realize I was deeply inspired by them. However, if it's something you think might be truly a part of you, explore. Consider. Think about vaginas. :D

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      How do you tell someone what it essentially feels like to be how you are? I can't tell you how to find it- it's just a part of you. You have to feel it for yourself and find it for yourself. If you are fae, you will know. You will feel chaos and control, whimsy and responsibility, connection and disconnection, nonsense and normalcy. You may not feel "right" reacting how others react to everyday situations. You may feel wanderlust, a desire to go "home" to somewhere you've never seen. There's a lot. I can't tell you anything that will really help you.

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      Well, if you're unsure because you don't know how you feel, you probably aren't. If you're unsure because you don't know how to be, then you might be.

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      I mean...it's kind of like knowing your sexuality or if you like broccoli or whether you're going to get your graduate degree. You either just ARE a certain way or you make a conscious decision to explore the idea of not being what you always thought you were. I can't EXPLAIN it to you, just like I can't explain to you why I'm attracted to more than one gender or that I feel better when my hair is bright violet. I just AM a faerie. I was brought up to be a faerie. My mother told me about Tinkerbell and we explored Paganism together and we collected shiny things and then I went past all that and just....I'm a faerie, ok?

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      I assume you mean in theatre. I don't want this to sound conceited, but I'm not very interested in traditional theatre, I'm not as intrigued or as you say "challenged" by it. Every once in a while I find something I'd ENJOY being in, but I don't know about "challenged" by. I'd love to play Galinda in Wicked.

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      I do, but it's not something I can explain without photos and other instruction assistance. I'm considering putting together burlesque-y type and other costume tutorials on my YouTube channel or starting a blog for those specific things.

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      I live mainly out of my van, rather than in. I stay at people's houses. I've taken a truck stop shower maybe once or twice. I should eat better, but I don't. Eat good, natural, healthy food. Living in or out of your car is stressful, and your body needs all the help it can get. I park my van in hotel parking lots or at rest stops when I do stay in the van. I'm enjoying my lifestyle, but I'm always looking to do more and do better, so I wouldn't say "happy" is the right word. It's incredibly taxing, but it's worth it to me. I'd rather not have rent to pay.

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      Don't ask me. I don't know enough about BPD. I know what I am and what I do. Don't let the label define you, just get help when/where you need it.

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faerie. clown. burlesque dancer. musician. seamstress. writer. actress. designer. sexual health advocate.

Just your friendly neighborhood polymath.

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