
The experience of being bound and gagged, how does the anticipation differ from the actual experience, and do you ever, whilst bound, wish to be out of the bonds?
Seeing how I like bondage pics because I like to and want to tie women up to tease them sensually I can't really tell you what it feels like.
What I can tell you based on what people have told me is that to be bound is that to some it's been described as feeling like a warm safe hug from a child's parents - that it feels safe, secure, which may seem a bit hard to understand at first but when you get down to it there's a deep trust needed in letting someone tie you up, and in trusting them to treat you safely, even if the ride also involves pain, sex or sensual exploration.
To me, bondage is incredibly sensual and I like blindfolds, ice, wax play, fingers, lips, chocolate sauce, fruit, whipped cream and my tongue flicking around someone's body.
Paradoxically there is an awesome freedom in submission when it's done right, with trust, safety, and passion - giving up control means you don't have to think, don't have to make decisions, implies you are cared for and valued - and that can set the stage for some amazing sensual and sexual play.

