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You're still gorgeous!
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Seeing how I like bondage pics because I like to and want to tie women up to tease them sensually I can't really tell you what it feels like.
What I can tell you based on what people have told me is that to be bound is that to some it's been described as feeling like a warm safe hug from a child's parents - that it feels safe, secure, which may seem a bit hard to understand at first but when you get down to it there's a deep trust needed in letting someone tie you up, and in trusting them to treat you safely, even if the ride also involves pain, sex or sensual exploration.
To me, bondage is incredibly sensual and I like blindfolds, ice, wax play, fingers, lips, chocolate sauce, fruit, whipped cream and my tongue flicking around someone's body.
Paradoxically there is an awesome freedom in submission when it's done right, with trust, safety, and passion - giving up control means you don't have to think, don't have to make decisions, implies you are cared for and valued - and that can set the stage for some amazing sensual and sexual play. -
Mmmmhmmmm. That'd be nice. This is why I leave a chat box on my tumblr - so women can talk to me and flirt with me, even if anonymously. Trying to be playful via ask boxes and formspring is a bit laggy and unrewarding - just come talk to me instead.
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What about them? They're usually cute. I like them. IDK. I love breasts of all sizes, though I tend to dislike fake ones and wish women would be happier with what nature gives them.
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Thanks. Not sure if you mean the one here, which I used to use on my tumblr until I saw a blog frmo the woman who took it as a self-shoot and then blogged a few years ago asking people to stop using it. I took it down on my blog and left a link to her blog about the history of the pic - an awesome photo, and one she deserves more credit for. Or maybe you mean the one on my tumblr now?
Anyway, this is another reason formspring annoys me - there's not really any need for this to be anonymous. I hope something interesting comes across my dash from you too, but I'll never know it was you unless you send me a note telling me who this was. I'm fine with not publishing anything sent to my tumblr ask box if someone marks it as private, and it's much more fun to know who is writing to me and to be able to respond privately if I'd like to. -
Um, sure. You want to see more ass? I am one? You are one? We all have one. WTF, how am I even supposed to respond to something like this?
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Fuck if I know. It's a question taken out of context. Do you mean what is formspring? What is my formspring about? What is my blog that has a formspring link? This is a vague question that doesn't really seem worth trying to answer. Be a little more specific if you expect a more specific answer.
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Welcome to the neighborhood. No need to be shy.
Try www.fetlife.com. I’d suggest leaving your profile relatively empty while you get a feel for it so you don’t get swamped with people hitting on you right off the bat - look for groups in your area, and people in your area. Try searching under the closest larger cities around you. Read the discussion boards there that cover just about any kink or aspect of BDSM stuff. Lurk, read, and post and talk to people if and when you are comfortable with that. Everyone starts somewhere and anyone into this sort of thing is usually on a journey of exploration and always still learning about themselves and the world of kinkyness out there.
Look for local Munches - these are meets in public places, usually restaurants, in non kinky attire, casual, social great way to meet people and to get a feel for what’s happening locally, and also to screen potential playmates - it’s ok and a good idea to ask for references from former playmates, and to ask others about someone. Munches often are followed by local play parties or demos - also a great safe way to explore a little without the risk of driving off with a stranger to get tied up by someone you don’t know. The munches and parties tend to be social and friendly and a mix of all sorts - the beautiful thing about kinky people is they are generally very respectful and tolerant of anyone’s interests without being judgmental.
Take a look at www.submissiveloving.com - it’s a great resources on things from a sub and dom perspective, and especially read the articles on The Healthy Sub and on some of the bad Dom articles, especially Unhealthy Control, which reads like a list of bad boyfriends to most subs I know.
Take your time especially in bonding to or committing to anyone - there’s a broad spectrum of kinks and finding what works for you and a partner that matches is a little tricky - are you a masochist? if not then you don’t need a sadistic top or dom. Find someone willing to earn your trust and respect - it’s all too easy for a sub to fall into and attach to someone who isn’t right, who isn’t really naturally dominant or capable of giving you what you need, consistently, and you can’t expect to find that with the first person that wants you - ultimately the sub is in control in granting power and control, and you want someone who respects it and sees your submission as a gift and who deserves your attention and devotion.
Collarme.com is another community resource but to me it tends to seem more of a meat market than fetlife, it’s full of fakes and people who swoop onto fresh meat to try to claim any new sub as their own. Fetlife has a bit of that but is free, not linked to paid service like the alt.com, collarme.com sites. I avoid sites like alt.com where you can’t even read an email from someone without paying for membership - there may be cool people there but it’s a premium paid service and focused more on hooking up than fetlife, which is a free community resource.
Another cool and lesser known resource is www.utherverse.com - a 3d animated chat community with a large BDSM curious crowd - lots of newbies and fakes or posers but there’s also some great people there - the sex animations are VIP only, but with a little effort you can age verify free and earn or get gifted free VIP there so you can get into the dungeons and get whipped and spanked and whatnot using 3d avatars and animations which actually do a fairly good job of creating a sense of reality even thought it’s essentially animated cybersex.
Utherverse is an interesting alternative to explore this kind of thing if you are shy or unable to get out and do so in real life and my feeling is that the emotions and mindplay is ‘real’ whether you act it out online or face to face. It allows a safe anonymity and sense of community and it’s actually a place i have seen a lot of people grow and learn in, in ways that have helped people overcome intimacy issues from shyness, abuse, rape and other obstacles like body image, and women tend to like the ability to dress up and customize your avatar, and you can also design your own 3d playspaces if you get VIP there.
Literotica.com is also a good resource for stories and fiction to get a better handle on the mindsets and ways people play and explore their sexuality.
Please feel free to talk to me in my ask box, you don’t need to be anon, I won’t publish it if you make it clear it’s a private message, or chat with me when I’m online on the chat box on my page - usually nights, I’m headed off to get some sleep now.
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um, you mean one of those things that straps around your head and gets shoved in your mouth? Or are you gonna puke from something on my blog? Or do you need to open your throat a little wider, or want me to pull out now? Do tell...
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ok.... wow, that was great, too bad you can't see it.
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hi. off to a great start. Let's run with it. The chat box on my tumblr usually works great for this sort of thing if I am logged in there. The lag here or in the ask box there tends to kill off any sense of conversation for me, but I'll give it a go if anyone has much more than this to say.
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I love getting comments like this. Formspring generally seems pretty useless to me. So, thanks, I love bliss, smiles, little messes and puddles...
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when did i get kissed? it's been far too long, I'm still waiting for the right lips to bite and suck on.
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http://iwant2shootu.tumblr.com/ has a chatbox at the bottom you can use to chat with me live if I am logged in. If I'm not logged in there and you want to talk just send me a message here or via the /ask links on tumblr and I'll log in if I am around a PC.
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lol. Now I'm confused. Looks like something I maybe wrote a loooong time ago, referencing a turtle video you sent me a link to, and some confusion over you renaming your tumblr and then the links here on formspring having broken links to your old tumblr or something. idk. formspring sucks for any kind of reasonable conversation or communication, say hi via the chatboxes on my tumblr sometime.
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you're welcome. My pleasure. ;)
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I'm a guy who loves sensuality and submissive women. I live in the southeast usa now, grew up in the northeast then spent some great years in northern california. I'm a vegetarian. I smoke weed. I play music. And I love to nurture women and explore their fantasies and bodies. I have 3 blogs with different themes. Feel free to say hi sometime through the chat widget on my blog. I don't say a lot on my tumblr because for me its a mostly visual and non verbal thing but I enjoy chatting and playing with women online.
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