I think it totally depends on the situation and the people involved. I think there are certain women in this world who tend to have self destructive behaviors already built into their personalities that help push them towards being the crazy girl. But I also think that a lot of what our society condones as right and wrong with the behavior between couples, and the fact that hooking up rather than a relationship has become the norm, has contributed to a lot of the damage. Especially with guys. The whole Fuck bitches get money mentality is prevalent with guys my age. So when I do fall for some one, I end up getting hurt cause all they are looking for is a quick lay. I am not saying all men are like this. I am just saying we are all fucked up in our own ways and none of us are perfect.