At the moment, I'm adding to the online library database for Google. After I finish with my own schooling, I'd like to return to school. ...As the teacher.

I'm assuming you're the same person who Tumblr Ask'd me; I answered it there. ^^

Good question.To be honest, there's a lot of beautiful, interesting women who are enjoyable to speak with/be around, but I'm doubtful of our relationship compatibility. I'm starting to feel as if I'm seeking out odd things in relationships -- but as I said previously: I'll never know for certain how a woman acts in a relationship until we are in one. So you're right -- perhaps I will seek the experience.

I'm interested in a lot of people, that's for sure. In regards to romance, I'm ...still interested in a number of women. None of this matters much at all though, because I'm not going to take it further than that.

I'm incapable of describing it well with words, but I know I'm not ready for a high-maintenance relationship. To me, chivalry is dead (for the most part) -- but equality isn't. A loss of chivalry doesn't allow for disrespecting women, but to express an equal amount of respect and courtesy to all, regardless of gender. Therefore, I can not assure my woman any fairytale settings or occurrences. Days together shall be spent simply and comfortably, while still have the best dammed time of our lives. We'd be free to have our disputes, and voice personal concerns and opinions, but I'd like to stray from the 'controlling' crap. She wishes to attend the party that evening? Clubbing with friends? Has made other plans? By all means, have the time of your life. When I wish to spend a lazy day at home to myself -- I should also be able to. She could spend that time to go grab a cup of coffee and catch up with pals. If I can find a woman who doesn't mind leading her own individual life, while being in a relationship with me, then awesome. I'll love her, respect her, and trust her -- and expect the same treatment in return.

This is simply the GIST of it (and I'm leaving out a whole ton), but I don't wish to ramble on any longer. As you can see in the paragraph above, these (among many other things) are things I would not be able to know about a person until we are in a relationship already -- which is why I'm puzzled as-to how far I should take these 'interests' of mine. I'm pivoting in one central area, holding my ground, while branching out in all directions, to wherever I'm able to reach. Heck, I've been living fairly happily without a relationship anyhow.

Short answer: Yes, I know of a few interesting, delightful women -- but I'm not 'chasing' after any one person at the moment.

No :o)

Ugg sorry, this has been sitting in here for two months, and I seriously don't think I'll ever get around to answering it. My answer will just be too long, and I can never catch myself in the mood to write it out.

In a short answer version I suppose I can only tell you to (wo)man-up. I don't know how I get over breakups -- I've never been on the duped side. I suppose I'd just sit on Tumblr or something. Or go have a good day, week, month, year with my friends. Yeah, that's it.

Sorry for the unusual lack of seriousness in my response. 2lazy4this

Why? I'm not. Have I said or done something that would give off this impression?

First off, know that the feminine mind MAY be wild and unpredictable. She may be mad/sad about something you find to be insignificant, or perhaps she has a serious reason. Either way, you must be aware of what you say or do. Even if you do not mean it as such, a female in an unstable emotional state can take certain actions or words as offensive and/or twist your words, making matters worse for both of you. You should have a good knowledge of what makes your lady tick prior to starting.

Not much I can do in my power besides telling you to identify the problem. You may begin with showing concern by putting an arm around her (or any other considerate gesture) and ask her "What's wrong?" (If she knows you know what's wrong, you should skip asking her to avoid appearing ignorant.) There's a good chance that she won't tell you on the first try, but don't give up (don't nag either). Tell her you want to help, that you love her (if you do), etc. She'll likely open up after some time. If she doesn't open up, and begins to get angry at you, there's a good chance that whatever is wrong, it's your fault. This would be something to think about beforehand; if its your fault, don't ask her what's wrong -- that would d be a whole new story. If you can't identify the problem, then I can only shrug my shoulders.

If you can find out the situation, you may get back to me. I don't have the time nor space to write out a solution to every possible generic problem. Just remember to patient and considerate.

Or you could just engage in intercourse.

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Correction -- we are beyond just cool.

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Hmm, every relationship has a different 'base'. The relationship I share with a hypothetical woman would stand on different grounds between you and your partner. Of course there are some general rules, such as allowing yourself to become comfortable, while still maintaining substantial effort towards the relationship -- but again, a majority of it depends on you two personally.

If you two being yourselves just isn't enough to 'cut it', then perhaps have a nice day out with each other. It could be a nice dinner (home-cooked, or dine out), an amusement park, a long drive (road trip?!), but the most effective way would be something only you know (hopefully -- if not, then perhaps after some brainstorming). If you've been in a relationship long enough, certainly you've had some discussions/inside jokes about things you've wanted to do together. Start there.

If even then your relationship is failing, I would let it end nicely. You two are being yourselves, and your best. If this doesn't work, then the future is looking bleak and rough. End it on a good note while you can, and keep times together as good memories for you to smile upon (I understand I'm making something difficult sound simple, but you'll manage). :-)

Normally I find myself coming early to events, unless I had somewhere to be beforehand (or other reasons which I have no control over). If we're talking about school, that's another story -- as you can find me coming late more often than not (...until Trisha started taking me to school).

Five times, and I've never had more than one per go, so my 'count' is at five. I'm not going to lie -- A feeling of euphoria surged throughout me, and overall it just made me feel amazing, energized, and blissful. Would I ever do it again? No. It's not due to a bad experience or anything, because I had none. From day one, I simply told myself that I would stop at five, and I did.

Hay, hay, you may very well be correct. Only through the web, brutha. Fist me thru the screen, and don’t misinterpret that.

AIM is lame, but I'm always on mobile so feel free to IM me!

...I MISSS YOU MEOWMICHELLE. :'(

The 'regular' colors, I don't mind (blue, hazel, green, etc) -- especially if the wearer's ethnicity suits the color to the point where I wouldn't even be able to tell, had I met them after they started using contacts. For the more irregular colors such as red, yellow, grey/white, etc -- I think they look neat-o, when worn on occasion. I would still like to see a 'natural' appearance every so often. :-)

Like I've said to many of these types of questions before... they can. I've seen females whose attractiveness (to me) increases, decreases, and stays the same with a beanie.

There are some ankle booths I like more than high boots. To me, what I find important about boots is the material and the toe-shape. That aside, some nice high boots do have their way of peaking my ezxcitem3nt. 8|

HAHAH, I'm handing this one over to you Khoi. But in all seriousness, age isn't something I use to define what I (dis)like in women. Honestly, I can't even accurately predict a woman's age nowadays. But hey! If they're attractive, wise, interesting, and have a lot to say about this world, I'll probably go after them. If I do find their age to be at a range I don't find to be preferable, then I'll settle as friends. But okay, Khoi -- you can take a snab at this again.

LOL! That's an I, not an exclamation mark; I swear.

Not particularly, no. Not for me.