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      not based on it- but it does make a difference. it's about you being on the same intellectual wavelength. if you've got lot of points you connect with the person on it means the relationship is more likely to last.

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      i think you need to tell him. completely. but only if you are prapred for the consequences. you ready for the marriage to end? do you want to work through it if he does? you need to work that all out before you move on.

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      well it depends on the complications! if he's married, then probably not. if it's that he lives in anaother city, then you probably should!
      if there are complicaitons but you both want the relationsihp - then you sit down and talk about it together. working it out together can clear things up fast- and if you are on the same page, nothing is really that tricky..

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      maybe your husband doesn't want a submissive wife- he chose you in the first place right?
      it's about respect however. insteand of "doing what he tells you" think about it as "doing what is best for you as a couple" - this helps.

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      he's obviously hurting. if he's making yu feel unsafe make sure you document all of his actions for evidence. otherwise, don't bite! agree to meet him publically, (with support if necessary) for him to off load then no answering texts, emails, or phone calls after that (warn him you're going to do that)

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      If he's having affairs and there has been a child you NEED external help - even just as accountability to him. Otherwise it's not going to be a healthy relationship.

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      no sex is free. someone always pays somehow - unless you both are invested equally in it- and if you are, you don't need to ask where to find it

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      why do we always want someone who isn't interested in us? focus on being someone who wants to be loved by someone who actually respects and loves you :)

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      ooooh just one?
      hmmm
      you know this question has made me think more than any other I've been asked. hmm what does that say about me!
      It has to be someone who believes in washing...
      No freakishly dirty man bits near me! Um....
      Ok,
      no.
      Too hard to choose. But you got me thinking! :)

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