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So ask me something interesting Boobie!!!!
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Hey there! It's not really a method rather than just slathering pure cooking olive oil all over my face, ha! At night, I wash my face and then pour some olive oil into my hands and just go to town on my face. I massage it in and make sure to apply it to my neck as well. I do this about an hour before bed because I don't want to get my sheets all greasy. Yes, I look ridiculous and my face looks like a disco ball but yes! I have definitely seen improvements! My skin is softer and more supple. It really works, and it's super cheap!
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Thank you! For someone who has gone black to blonde a thousand times, I know a little something about this topic. I even dyed my hair black from a store bought box dye two days before I went back to my hairdresser for the 50th time to please take me back blonde! I can only say how the process goes with someone who dyed their own hair dark. At first, it is a little orang-ey, but after about three sessions it's a nice blonde color.
If you have medium brown hair with only a few light highlights, going blonde will be super easy for you. Probably just ask for heavy blonde highlights and after two sessions, you should have blonde-ish hair. And I personally think blondes have more fun! -
What caused it? What DIDN'T cause it is more like it. If I really told everything about our tumultuous relationship, people would be FLABBERGASTED. Holes in walls, dishes thrown across the room, name calling, running down the road in the middle of San Diego at 2 am to get away from my husband, it was just......BAD. I completely take 50% of the blame as I have been completely selfish and all about me in the past. Still do, sometimes, and I'm working on it. I don't know where it comes from but I have always had a "the rules don't apply to me" and "I am the queen so worship at my feet" attitude at times, and I know BOTH are just WRONG and will never lend itself to a successful relationship.
Which is why we see a counselor, to try and work on our problems (he owns his 50%) but it's been ROUGH in the past. With a capitol R. -
I would say my husband is NOT my BFF. I listen to Dr Laura regularly, and women always call in complaining about their man not being "interested in talking about their day" and saying how they "want to sometimes bitch about their problems but their husband doesn't seem interested" and Dr Laura always says, your husband is not your close girlfriend. He doesn't want to gossip, mull over situations, men like to just see a problem and fix it, and the dynamic between girlfriends and husband/wife is drastically different. I love my husband yes and we absolutely talk about the important things, but he is not my best friend. He is my husband and I think the role of best friend and husband are separate. My husband is my provider, protector, lover, FRIEND, etc., but best friend? No. I save that nonsense for my girlfriends ;)
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Thank you so much! This was one of the nicest comments ever. Made my night ;)
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He may have done that once or twice, in anger after seeing the VS charges on the credit card statement, but I quickly let him know um, no, no no no no. Absolutely not acceptable. He has never made me feel like a "lowly housewife" and fully supports me staying home to raise the kids. I'm pretty lucky actually in how much leeway he gives me to freely spend, as I know he is happy to make me happy and he wants to give me things, however I have at times been pretty irresponsible with purchases and he absolutely lets me know that that is not acceptable which he very well should. However I'm doing a lot better and making a tad bit of money from blogging so all is good!
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YES. I have even gone to the courthouse and paid for the papers. That's the truth. However with that said, we are doing better now then ever. We see a counselor on the regular. We need it. Sex is good though. It's what's keeping us together ;)
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His ex wife cheated on him a few times, and she divorced him. He didn't want to divorce, so no I don't worry about that. He is as loyal as they come, even to a fault. Which is a fabulous character trait in my opinion ;)
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I don't hate lurkers at all!! I'm just glad people like to read what I write. Decreased readership would be worse to me than decreased comments, and I can tell my my stats that even though sometimes people don't comment as much, my stats still stay the same, so phew!
and I still live by the Dove detangler. LOVER IT. -
I weighed 130 after I had my first baby. I was in the best shape ever then. I tell no lies when I say I am 40!! pounds heavier then that right now!! However I am very determined to lose it all by this summer and look much better in a bikini.
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My favorite BY FAR are the Tantowels. I get them at Ulta. They are AMAZING. No orange streaks and no nasty smell.
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Ok so I'm super late to answer this question! Sorry! and let me tell you, I HAVE NOTHING. Seriously. I party one night and it takes me DAYS to recover, and I'm all, what is going on? I could do this five days in a row ten years ago and be just fine! And now I am drained. So I think it's just getting old. Getting old sucks. And if you ever come upon a good hangover cure please share with me!
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No other kids. I personally couldn't handle a step-children situation (I know some can and do great at it) but for me, I couldn't do it. So no kids with his ex (it was basically HER who didn't want kids) so thank God!
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Sorry for the late reply! She has a new blog URL www.tbsstories.blogspot.com.
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He was as fed up with us fighting and arguing as I was. And he actually really likes talking to a third party, mainly because he figures they will always agree with him and say he is right (they don't) but I think it is REALLY important to find a good counselor, which will make the man want to continue coming back. Rob likes going back because he knows it helps.
I run like crazy whenever I hear a counselor say something like "you need to put YOU first and do what YOU want" because that right there is horrible advice. Our counselor doesn't LET us use up the whole hour bitching and moaning about the other. I get SO MAD sometimes because I just want to complain about all the bad things about Rob and our counselor always stops me and makes me talk about the things I love about him and the reasons he is a good dad, husband, provider, etc. It pisses me off to no end but I know the results are much better from doing that than just sitting there bitching about everything he does that drives me nuts.
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We aren't. Her dad dated my aunt a long time ago, way before taylor was born. They broke up but he stayed close to our family.
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No :( Because we use it to trade out for other spots with other owners when we visit places other than Hawaii during the year.
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I'm not answering any more of these questions. They will all be deleted from this point on.
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me duh.
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Raven Smith’s Bio
Kennewick, WA
www.amommasdesiresandpacifiers.com/
A momma, fashion lover, snowboarder and blogger.
