A bestfriend is one that is always there for you and tries to understand you when no one else can. :) Support each other when the other party feels helpless. Lend a shoulder/listening ear when the other party is sad. I can share practically everything with her, other that those seriously personal stuff.
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I have a couple of best friends. And i share almost everything with them even my sex life. But talking about things that might embarrass myself, i might think twice before saying it. Mostly it's issues that has got to do with embarrassment that i keep to myself. ( But im not saying things like falling down in a shopping mall and not telling my friends ). I'm referring to things that are much more embarrassing or people might go wtf ewww WHAT, errr, eeee.
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To me, best friends are the ones whom you don't have to say a single word and they know what you're thinking. They share your joy, and bring away the pain. Between best friends, there's nothing you can't share because basically you want them to be there every moment. There's no line in best friends :)
A best friend is someone whom I can share all my secrets , everything than happens in my daily life and someone will stood there for me when bad things happen .
A best friend is someone that I hope that will understand and supports me with everything I do and be there for me when I need them .
There is no boundary lines between good friends .
We can share everything in life with your best friends .
But there is bound to be two sided faces of some "best friends "
So we have to open our eyes big big when we are choosing friends
Probably it's just me , but I have high expectations for a "best friend" : They must understand me , back me up regardless of what is it i am fighting for , know my mood changes , willing to listen to rants even tho I've ranted about it a million times before , willing to say "fuck it" to themselves and their needs when I need them the most , willing to go out of their way for me . Well , because , ... i do those things for them , too .
If you ask the Me from one to two years ago , I'd happily tell you that I have 6 best friends ; a whole damned clique . But , right now , as we grow , you realise that you can't really have that many that cares for you like you want to .
Or , like I said , prolly its my high standards .
For me , best friends need to share things with each other . No matter how bad it may sound to say it out loud , if that particular person is crowned the sacred title of being a "Bestfriend" to you , they will support you till the cows come home , and even after that . They are supposed to be that brother/sister that you've never had .
Butttt , of course , you need to be sensitive with the things you say ! It simply won't do to talk about your new eye-candy-worthy , totally heart-stopping , gorgeous , with-a-hot-bod boyfriend 24/7 . We know you're happy , and that your Bestfriend should be too , for you , but yeah , limits , you know ? That's the line : To share and open yourself up , WITHOUT hurting the other just because you're not sensitive to THEIR feelings .
bestfriend doesn't have to be with you 24/7 or think and act just like you. Truly, a bestfriend can be the exact opposite of you, and this usually leads to fights and difficulties getting along, but somehow you still just love them to death anyway. Your bestfriend is the one person who could not speak to you for any amount of time but you still think of them just the same. Someone who, despite all the changes a person goes through in their life, will stick by you and always accept you for who you are. A person who will always tell you what you NEED to hear, even if its not necessarily what you WANT to hear. A person who can make you laugh even on your bad days, and who makes all the problems in life seem easy to overcome, as long as you have them by your side. A bestfriend can be many things, your inspiration, your hero; bestfriends help eachother to become better people by using honest, constructive criticism that sometimes hurts to hear, but is all for the best in the end. Bestfriends are the ones that bring up touchy topics with you, even if it will risk you being angry w/ them because they care more about your well being. Your bestfriend is the one who you could piss off so badly, but in your time of need they'll will still be there for you. A bestfriend is someone who you have shared good AND bad memories with, but you just can't help but cherish each of them; a TRUE bestfriend is hard to come by, difficult to leave, and impossible to.
Someone who you can open up about anything to. Someone who wouldn't judge you even if you were being a fucking retard in public. Someone who understands you inside and out and thinks the exact same way as you. HAHAHA. I tell my bestfriend everything!!! I don't think there's a line?......
A best friend, is the BEST. To me, it's someone that is specially close to your heart, and someone that knows you probably even more than your family does. I think people should feel comfortable around my best friend, not feeling inferior or any other negative aspects.
Everyone has their own thoughts and opinions, so there's bound to be some conflict between friends. But what makes best friends different is that they forgive, not forgetting, but accepting their flaws. Or help them change for the better.
In my opinion, trust is really important. If there's a line between what you can tell your 'best' friend or not, then that person isn't your BEST anymore. If you doubt your best friend, what's the point. He/She is just another GOOD friend - which is very different from best friends.
To me finding a best friend is the hardest thing to do in the world. To find someone that accepts you and at the same time you feel comfortable around him/her, it's a blessing. I think we all shouldn't just jump into 'best friends', because it requires time to actually build the bond between two people. I guess even best friends break up, but even if they do, he/she will leave very deep footprints in his/her life.. And never forgotten.
A best friend is one that makes me feel happy whenever. Doesn't even need to do anything. He doesn't even need to be present. Just knowing that someone out there loves you is all that matters. You can share everything. Cause a best friend will know what to do in any situation. But it must be reciprocated feelings, if not it's just a pseudo-bestie. It's worth more than any relationship in the world.
A best friend is someone that tops all your other friends. Someone you can share EVERYTHING with. Someone that knows you in and out. You can share whatever you want: good, bad, happy , sad. The things that'll make you angry and the things that'll make you sad. It's not necessarily good times that'll be shared but the tougher times that you go through together. Bestfriends could be your lifelong school friend or your girlfriend/boyfriend they can be anyone that you can trust enough and they trust you but remember your Bestfriends might not be Bestfriends with you. Food for thought.
There should be a line if things gets TOO personal, but then again, there should be no secrets between Bestfriends so...yea. it depends on how personal that thing is, and the other party should try to understand why you kept mums about it, instead of prying things us and make a big fuss about it. Well that's my opinion yea. :)ERROR: Cookies are not enabled. You must enable Cookies to use the application.