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infiniteask 5 Jul 12

Some guys say they will lose respect for a girl (and not be willing to pursue a relationship with her) if she is willing to sleep with them right away/too early on. Do you think this is fair/justified? [17]

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  1. Kazakstan LalaLolio
    Kazleberry 21 Jul 12

    Everyone has their own idea of how they want their partner to behave, and if someone doesn't fit that you have every right to not want to pursue a relationship with them. Just because it seems stupid to me, doesn't mean you aren't allowed to feel that way.

  2. ♥ Smashley
    millerthriller 10 Jul 12

    Fair? Absolutely.

    There's a reason the term used is "easy". If you treat yourself like a prize, so will the guy.

    If you're having sex, you've made the adult decision to deal with the repercussions. That includes being blown off by a guy.

  3. Kristin
    KristinNGolob 8 Jul 12

    yeah its fair, except the guys who persist on trying to get with you on a first date, they should be treated the same

  4. Shahn Holly
    HOLLYVAMP 8 Jul 12

    I believe you should wait until you really are sure you want to pursue them exclusively.. sex without some feelings isn't worth anything to me, so I do not waste my time with it.

  5. Noie
    gowithzebras 6 Jul 12

    Fuck 'em. Oh wait...

  6. Bridie McDade
    askbridie 6 Jul 12

    hmm

    i think giving yourself away should not be done so easily
    whether its physically with sex or saying you love someone

    so i would lose respect for someone like that i think
    boy or girl

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  8. Carole
    GalacticToad 5 Jul 12

    I understand why someone would think that way, but something so few people seem to understand is that sexual desire is completely natural. So if a girl says she wants to sleep with them right away, it only makes sense. If the guy doesn't want to sleep with her immediately, he doesn't have to.
    I personally think "losing respect" for the girl is pretty stupid since having sex is totally normal. It's asking someone to go against their natural instincts in return for respect.

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    SaepeRide 5 Jul 12

    Unless it works both ways, completely unjustified and hypocritical.

  10. :)
    Momma2Leanna 5 Jul 12

    Yes totally fair. No one wants someone easy.

  11. Sara
    RediscoverSara 5 Jul 12

    Well then I hope they can expect the same reaction from females if they want to get in their pants on the first date/right away.

  12. Nikki
    nikkino 5 Jul 12

    I think they have a right to not want a relationship with someone no matter the reason, and I personally would never want a "easy" partner.. so.

  13. Sarah
    Aldnha 5 Jul 12

    Yes, but the same thing goes for guys.

  14. Spam Me.
    xiloveyouuu 5 Jul 12

    It depends on your own morals :)

  15. Kate Gould
    kategouldx 5 Jul 12

    slut

  16. Emmalina
    Emmalina 5 Jul 12

    Yeah, I think that's stupid. No guy gets to play king of my vagina and tell me when and when I should not want to use it based on his personal ideals and morals. If HE doesn't want to sleep with me, that's fine, but no man has any right to tell me that I shouldn't want to sleep with him (yet). So sick of men acting like they own women's vaginas and have the right to say when we should and shouldn't use 'em.

  17. Cristina Yap
    Kissobelle 5 Jul 12

    Only in that he wants to be special.
    But fuck man, you slept with her at the same time, you slut.
    So... Nope, not fair or justified at all.

    SEX IS NICE.
    HAS SEX.
    ENJOYS SEX.
    SEX IS EVIL.

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