EtherealWaif
EtherealWaif 10 Aug 12

If you are in a relationship thinggy with someone, is it wrong to get a "crush" on another person? Even if you don't do anything? [7]

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  1. Ana Varga

    A crush... hah, funny word. I have a crush on someone who could literally crush me.

  2. Jackie Thurgood

    Nah. I get small crushes all the time. Mostly men in suits turn me on more than any other man- anyway, no. It's not bad if you're not acting on it.

  3. Cynicism

    I don't see why not, I mean unless the person I'm in a relationship with is all "oh no God why are you crushing that person waaaah" or some stupid bullshit.

    It's funny how two completely irreconcilable people can look at each other and go "You know, we have absolutely nothing in common, no similar goals or aspirations, and under any other circumstances, I'd fucking hate you. Gee, we should fuck. I bet that's a good idea."

    And then you get the little demon spawn children that no one wants, and then they're corrupted by their parents hatred of each other and in turn grow up to be sociopathic assholes with vendettas against humanity and a deep seeded loathing for their parents.

    Shit like that gets you killed. Just ask the Menendez boys.

    Keep that shit in your pants you disgusting vermin.

    I need some coffee.

  4. Albert Henry Makar

    A crush is one thing; an affair (when you act out on those feelings and get in a relationship while still with the one you love) is a whole, different story. Feelings can be tricky, but they aren't impossible to control.

  5. Fuzzball

    If you don't act on it then there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. I don't know much about relationships myself, but it seems like it'd be natural. It'd only be wrong if you acted on it while still with your current partner.

  6. Jules Pembrose Thurgood

    Yah can't always help what your heart, or dick, wants. You can help how far your hands wander though.

  7. L. Bishop

    I think a true relationship, where real love is the heart of said relationshop requires that the person doesn't stray or have eyes for anyone else. Usually in the case where someone is truly in love, this isn't an issue because they can see no one else. I think if someone is able to see someone else, then maybe they need to re-evaluate their relationship.

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