The answer is: gender isnt the common denominator in my relationships. Currently, my largest investments and strongest friendships are with people who have a penis. It is not the penis that makes the friendship. What it boils down to is that I prefer to have relationships with people who are less driven and attached to their emotions and emotional reactions. Recently (in the span of my life), I got burned pretty good by deep investments I made in people who were VERY attached and generally ruled by their emotions, which I am sure plays a part in my desire to sheild myself from that. It happens that those people were both cunt carriers, but I would hope that I wouldnt not make an investment in another woman just because of it. How true that statement really is right now, I am not sure I can judge that. I want it to be true, so I will hopefully fake it until it is true.