The Bodywand at Babeland, the Hitachi, the Wahl coil, and the cordless vibratex (there's a larger one and a mini, both good!)

Communicate until you feel like you've talked about everything, then communicate some more. Don't feel guilty expressing jealousy- know your boundaries, and don't push them too hard, too fast. Think about why you wanted to be nonmonogamous in the first place!

London, UK. Berlin, Germany. Oakland, CA.

No. And that's probably a good thing. The answer would either make me incredibly vain or terribly depressed. ;)

Sure! I should write a piece on blowjobs, for flesh cocks and silicone ones.

Often, yellow. It makes me anxious.

Take photos of submissive men looking powerful and being loved and offer them to be shown at local galleries. Offer to be the man in the images. Vocally challenge the tropes when the erotica you read doesn't involve the dominant female having sex with the male submissive- even better, write your own erotica. If someone makes a joke or says something about all submissive men are ____, challenge that. Take some time to explain to submissive men how to fit in a bit better at parties, maybe offer some skill trades. Demonstrate your love for your submissive male publicly in kink spaces.

Springbok burgers? Camel tagine? Honeyed ants? What's your definition of weird?

I am a giant fan of lilies, all kinds of lilies.