ladypandorah's Formspring answers ladypandorah's Formspring answers http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah http://www.formspring.me 60 <![CDATA[A question for any submissive females willing to answer: how easy is it to make you come? (by HarperEliot)]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/303133542261457173 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/303133542261457173 Sun, 11 Mar 2012 07:44:28 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[A question for any submissive females willing to answer: how easy is it to make you come? (by HarperEliot)]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/303133542253077374 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/303133542253077374 Sun, 11 Mar 2012 07:44:28 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[How do you like your eggs cooked for breakfast?]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/230284661941612317 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/230284661941612317 Tue, 23 Aug 2011 07:09:01 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[What is the nicest thing someone can do to your nipples? What is the nicest thing you think you'd like to do to a pair of nipples? Do your nipples sense things equally strongly? Bonus man question: Do you like your nipples played with at all? (by BeingBlacksilk)]]>
For an odd reason, which I thought I was alone in, but I think @notCathARine shares this, I much prefer my nippled 'unhardened' - I associate hard nipples with being cold, a state I detest being in. Personally I like the touch of my nipples far more when they're 'soft' than when hard. I hope I'm not too weird in that!

What I do enjoy is to have my nipples sucked licked, kissed and nipped at just enough to make me yelp. I don't like them being tugged/pulled at all.

My favourite thing to do to a partner's nipples is to generally tweak and tickle them and watch their reaction - I should lick a little more, I think, though.]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/228649416565754969 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/228649416565754969 Thu, 18 Aug 2011 18:51:09 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[What words of advice would you give to a newcomer to the lifestyle, from a submissive perspective, and a Dominant one?]]>
I would say first and foremost communicate with any partner you wish to play with - set out expectations, boundaries, safewords and what you want them to give to you. Start with what you know, what you enjoy and build up from that to test the waters in other areas.

Read as much as you can, secondly. When I first started the journey down the rabbit hole I really didn't know much other than I got quite a kick from being tied down. Reading blogs, websites, even the odd tip from sex-toy websites can be useful - use Twitter to see who's in the scene, do they have a website attached to their profile? Spend some time exporing.

I'm more experienced in pleasure/pain D/s play rather than in serving and humiliation, so I'll approach general advice from this angle:

As a submissive, I would want to make sure I didn't do anything I felt too uncomfortable with, don't push yourself for the sake of it to begin with. Never be afraid or ashamed of using your safeword or saying 'No, that's enough'.

As a Dominant, be aware of all your senses in playing with submissives - how do they look? Is that a blissed out expression accompanying the twinge of pain etc...Listen to the sounds they are making, keep your ears open for a sudden change in moans/yelps... Remember you can use the safeword too - just because you might be a sadist, it doesn't mean you have to be a dick. If you don't want to inflict something on someone, say so.

Like I say - broad, and only my opinion - read, read read! As much as you can. And enjoy! xx]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/228557039691922919 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/228557039691922919 Thu, 18 Aug 2011 12:44:06 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[If a strange sexy man walked up to you in a bar, and offered you money for spending the night with him. What would you do? (by Rosemonrou)]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/228235035268913173 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/228235035268913173 Wed, 17 Aug 2011 15:24:32 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[Do you have a nickname?]]>
Not tellng you those :p]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/228234551623712025 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/228234551623712025 Wed, 17 Aug 2011 15:22:36 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[OK let's try an easier one then. Don't you think it's selfish, arrogant and despicable to broadcast about your *seemingly* monogamistic but perverted sexual activities to everyone, including possibly very vulnerable people? Thank you and good night]]>
My blog is not broadcast or advertised in any other circles other than the one it belongs to - sex bloggers. People are quite capable of making their own decisions as to what they want to search for on the internet and if they are seeking the kind of activities I describe on there then who are you to judge what is perverted and what is so-called 'normal'? You for instance consider what I write as being morally questionable, whereas I consider the obsessive, repetitive and contradictory state of your questions to have a lack of moral backbone hiding behind anonymity. Everyone is entitled to their own voice, I don't condemn you for yours, in fact I would like you to justify your argument, so why do you persist?]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/228127574700628024 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/228127574700628024 Wed, 17 Aug 2011 08:17:30 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[Well at least my questions are a bit more challenging than do you like washing up! ha! But seriously, are you hungry for abuse or secretly self-harming because you despise being letched at purely for your bodily charms?]]>
One has to ask what kick you seem to get out of these little one-on-ones you engage me in - I wonder, is there a touch of sadist within you?

You surely must realise what you are revealing about yourself through these questions, exposing yourself, albeit behind a pane of anonymity, for all to see on Twitter.

Oh, I also must thank you for the compliment you have paid me, you're not alone in thinking I have charms about my person. Very kind.]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/227928605131302907 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/227928605131302907 Tue, 16 Aug 2011 19:06:54 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[Jeez you must be desperate for attention, even from me. Maybe you have a secret fetish for verbal abuse too, ha! that's a laugh! Actually bored with your puerile answers to date. But then with only 148 followers are you really of interest to anyone?]]>
It's quite amusing how much of what you say contradicts itself - 'with only 148 followers are you really of interest to anyone'. Well, 148 people at least! How many followers can you claim to have, I wonder - as many?

I have many fetishes - as you may have seen, you should be careful in case your verbal abuse starts turning me on.]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/227811104540100199 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/227811104540100199 Tue, 16 Aug 2011 11:20:00 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[What's your most-hated chore?]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/227801853633523380 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/227801853633523380 Tue, 16 Aug 2011 10:43:14 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[Come off it. Seriously content and satisfied people don't feel the need to flash their tits and bum to strangers on the internet.]]>
And at any rate, the pictures are only a fraction of what I flash on the internet. Tell me, which of my posts on the blog demonstrate a particular lack of satisfaction? Personally, I think there's a great deal of contentment on there.]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/226818018754198497 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/226818018754198497 Sat, 13 Aug 2011 17:33:49 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[So self indulgence not enough, you actually need the razor cut of criticism? You crave what you can't have. You're too shallow.THE Pandorah was far more complex and intriguing. Not mere smack and screw. Satisfied yet?]]>
As for craving what I can't have, I couldn't possibly imagine what that could be! I have a lovely life, full of warmth, love and friendship and not an ounce of bitterness, bile and sulphur. That does make me fairly satisfied, yes.]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/226811584993854178 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/226811584993854178 Sat, 13 Aug 2011 17:08:15 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[Can we see more of your bare bum? :)]]>
When I get round to shooting some more pics.

Keep your eyes peeled.]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/226092593723761802 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/226092593723761802 Thu, 11 Aug 2011 17:31:08 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[Frankly I could give a darn whether he is real or fictional. either way your writing can equally be either based on reality or imagination to help you get off. and all in the secret confines of your own anonymous world for all anyone knows is fiction too]]>
I completely agree with you that my writing helps to get me off - I know that it helps to get others off too - I like to be narcissistic as well as altruistic, you see. Nice and contradictory, like your fair self. We have things in common, you and I! Who would have thought?!

By your last sentiment my 'own anonymous world for all anyone knows is fiction too' - could I ask if you are implying that I myself am a figment on imagination? Who knows, I could be a figment of *your* imagination!]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/226086477350606519 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/226086477350606519 Thu, 11 Aug 2011 17:06:49 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[Do you share your online stuff with the putative 'mister', because if so then surely you are hiding stuff, and surely you don't give an honest answer to some questions]]>
I answer as honestly as I can and if you believe that I wasn't truthful, one has to question why you continue to ask me anything on Formspring to begin with.

If only I could ask you a question in return - that would be why you consider Mister to be a fabrication? Please share!]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/226069751439320619 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/226069751439320619 Thu, 11 Aug 2011 16:00:29 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[Or maybe it's more likely to irk your your narcissism knowing that I am breathing down your neck but refusing to play by your rules. Maybe you really want something your scared of, hence the anonymity and decete?]]>
Also I wonder if you would clarify what you mean by 'decete'? I think I could better answer that question with a bit more info.]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/226017646489924247 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/226017646489924247 Thu, 11 Aug 2011 12:33:26 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[So did you miss me this evening? Or you too busy makin up stories to cover your frustrations?]]>
Did you see my evening's updates on Twitter? If so, you will have seen what I kept myself busy with yesterday night.]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/225740877547472525 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/225740877547472525 Wed, 10 Aug 2011 18:13:38 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[If you dyed your hair an unnatural colour, what would it be? (If you already have unnatural coloured hair, why did you pick it?) (by BeingBlacksilk)]]>
Although a miniscule part of me wonders what kind of monstrosity I would look like as a peroxide blonde!]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/225685704913479636 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/225685704913479636 Wed, 10 Aug 2011 14:34:24 -0400 ladypandorah <![CDATA[Me again. Sorry, but surely all your writing proves is you are a prick teaser, and exhibitionist and narcissist? And if your mister (assuming he exists) is that fulfilling why else do you need to blag about it from the safety of internet anonymity?]]>
I am the first to admit I have all of those qualities - Mister (who, of course, exists - why would I make up the fact I have an 8 year relationship?) seconds the sentiments. I 'blag' about it because I am a sex-blogger - that's what I have decided to share with the internet because of a certain amount of exhibitionism. There are many of us around, some of whom you may follow, seeing as you have found me through Twitter.

I also enjoy writing in the style that I do, I find it creative, embracing, and expressive.]]> http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/225341149009708070 http://www.formspring.me/ladypandorah/q/225341149009708070 Tue, 09 Aug 2011 15:45:16 -0400 ladypandorah