she's the kind of girl who looks for love in all the lonely places, the kind who comes to poker pockets stuffed with kings and aces.
Questions Answered
When are you coming back? Have things settled down? You're missed.
I'll come back eventually. I've had writer's block for a while now. Posts just weren't flowing easily like they used to. I needed a break from feeling like I HAD to write all the time. Right now I need to focus on myself and on my schoolwork.
Things have settled down in a way. But I'm hellishly busy still. And I'm not sure if I'll come back to posting on my phaedrafallen.com blog. It was started and has been primarily about X and mine's relationship. Seeing as that relationship is changing and he's trying to date other people, I'm not sure I want to go back to writing there. Too many of my real-life friends know about my blog and read it on occasion. A few of those friends are no longer my friends. And that makes me very uncomfortable knowing they read it.
I think I might start fresh at a new blog. Anyone who emails, IMs, tweets or what not to ask me the address will of course be told it. We'll see.
I'm thinking of getting back into blogging in April or May. I've got some new posts written. But I'm going to hold off on posting them at the moment.
How well should people know each other before they have sex?Should strangers or near strangers ever have sex?
It honestly all depends upon what your personal beliefs/preferences are. I have no problem having sex with people I know and people I just met. Doesn't make that much of a difference to me.
what's the etiquette when you're with a guy the first time, and he wants to cum on you? should he ask if he can cum on your face or tits? do you just tell him what to do? or should he just do it?
X and I both agree. You should ask before you cum on a girl just out of respect.
When you'll have your MMF threesome, will you have both men penetrate you together? One in the ass and one in the pussy? Both in the pussy? Or is that too porn like? ;-p
I dunno. It depends on the guys. I know X is up for almost anything. But some guys are a bit homophobic, in that they don't want to be that close to another guy, and only want the 'one in the mouth while the other fucks her' scenario. Or even just a swap scenario. Honestly, I'd love to have a MMF with two bisexual guys. I mean, guys have the MFF threesome fantasy where they get to watch two girls go at it so why can't a woman have a similar fantasy? :D
Ideally? I'd like to have one in my ass and one in my pussy, one in my mouth one in my pussy or ass, and one or the other watching while the one guy fucks me (most likely X watching me and the other guy).
I'm not honestly a fan of the 'both in the pussy' thing. It's not something I think would feel good for a woman. The image of a double pussy fucking is one that is quite visually appealing and erotic in porn, but I think its one of those acts that just don't translate from visually appealing/erotic to actually being pleasurable. I mean, vaginas are stretchy, but I'm pretty sure mine is not THAT stretchy. X alone can tear me sometimes.
Any tips for girl on top sex? Like how to ride a guy properly?
Erm. I'm not sure there is a 'proper way' to ride a guy. I mean, getting good at being on top just took experience and experimentation. I still wouldn't consider myself 'good' at girl-on-top sex. Just do what feels good for you, experiment with angles and positions, and don't be afraid to try something that makes you 'look bad' (ex: something that scrunches your tummyfat, accentuates big thighs, or shows cellulite. your guy wont care.) The most important thing is that it feels good for you and him.
threesome is there one to many in the group? tell me what you like about it. I'm very curious and plese don't think I'm against
No. I mean, if you're having a threesome you WANT there to be another person. And if you're participating in a threesome and you think there is one too many in the group, then well, you shouldn't be having a threesome. Having another person is fun, in my opinion. I like having a lot going on.
Well, I'm bisexual so I like being with women too. A FFM threesome lets me be with a girl while also getting cock. I'd be just as happy one on one with a girl. But couples I know sometimes ask me to join for fun. I guess threesomes with women let me get the best of both worlds which I like.
I've yet to have a MMF threesome, though X and I are working on that. I'd assume I'd enjoy it for similar reasons. And because I'm a bit of an attention whore and I'd love to have two guys focused on me.
I'll be writing a 'Threesomes 101' post sometime here soon, so if you have anymore questions just ask them here or email me.
Also, I'd typically make a snarky comment about using English properly, but it seems like you're not a native speaker. So correct me if I misunderstood your question.
Have you ever thought (or fantasized) about being an escort?
Yes I have.
But I'm not in an area where that would be realistic. And frankly, I'm not the type who'd be able to have sex with nearly anyone even if money was involved.
How many times did you and X have sex this weekend?
We didn't have sex this weekend. Last time was Wednesday or Thursday, I think.
I was sick and he's been stressed. We weren't really in the mood.
I find it funny people assume that he and I go at it constantly. When we haven't seen each other for a long time, yeah, we have a week or so where we can't keep our hands off each other, where we have sex once or twice every day. On average we only have sex a few times a week. So the weeks where we fuck almost every day and the weeks where we don't fuck at all end up evening out.
Most exposed public place you'd had sex in?
A college dorm room. Bent over and holding on to the window ledge while the window was open. It was late at night though. Yeah. Never really done the public sex thing before.
Do you think a girl can make money doing webcam work?
Erm. I'm sure you could. But I'm not sure why you're asking me this question....
Jealousy and STDs - two of the bigger obstacles to three or more-somes. How can/should they be handled from the woman's perspective?
I'm not going to answer this here as I'm currently planning a 'Threesomes 101' and both of those will be covered in there.
Favourite place in your house to masturbate in?
Odd question...... do people masturbate in their kitchens or living rooms or something? I guess I'm old fashioned. I only masturbate in my bed.
What new horizons do you think you'll discover, sexually, when you are, say, 40?
Honestly? I'm not really sure..... I mean, I've explored a lot of stuff already.....I don't think I'll be really 'discovering' anything sexually when I'm 40.
Favorite place to take a guys load?
Pussy if it's X. Face if it's guys I don't know as well.
I just read the Wine Makes Me Easy post and can't wait for the next part of the story. Does thinking about your blog stories and writing them get you turned on?
:) Well, I don't know if/when I'll write a second part, but we'll see. Maybe if enough people like it.
And sometimes thinking about my blog stories and writing them turns me on, but sometimes not. I mean, most of what I write about has happened to me. If it doesn't say '_____ Fantasy' in the title or if I don't mention it's a fantasy in the post, then its happened to me.
Bottomline: I don't usually get insanely turned on. But I will get a little horny at time when I'm writing.
I love the video, and would love to see more! Any chance we could see a creampie in an upcoming photo?
Hahaha. Well, X does love creampie-ing me. I'm not making any promises but it could happen. I'll talk to him later and see what he thinks.
Glad you enjoyed the video. :)
Who are your favorite sex bloggers?
Probably Britni, Coquitten, Jake of Facts and Friction, Amy of Sex, Chocolate and Red Lipstick, CJ from Happyendingz, Dangerous Lilly, Thursday's Child, and a few more I'm sure I can't think of off the top of my head.
Do you think of yourself as dominant or submissive or neither?
Neither. I see myself as fluid. I can do what I need to in any situation and enjoy it.
I do find that I naturally tend to be more submissive. Particularly with X.
