My being shaven will never be negotiable, although I'm happy to trim and keep the bikini area clean (which I do any how). Oral is also something I'm happy with however I will not do any rough oral, deep throating or gagging as those are not enjoyable activities for me. Rough play would only be tolerated to a level which would need to be discussed beforehand. Due to the nature of the work I wouldn't feel safe fulfilling those scenarios.