Oh, I'd definitely rather take pictures; I hate having my picture taken, most of the time. I don't think I photograph well, and I feel really insecure when I look at pictures of myself. There is, occasionally, a very rare photograph of me that I don't find horrifying, but they're few and far between.

I think anon questions can be fun, except when they're clearly from people who are using Formspring to cause drama because you've taken away every other 'public' means for them to torture you short of a restraining order.

If you were sincere, you would not be anonymous. If you would like me to be the someone to talk to, please do so in an uncreepy way. I'm going to disable anonymous questions now. Thanks for playing.

(The question continued: "of us... what do ya say?") in a second question post.

I say that your desire to remain anonymous strikes me as highly suspect. I prefer to know my friends at least by name, if not in person. This feels distinctly like someone trying to fuck with me, and I've got enough going on in my real life -- that'd be the one with the real friends who I see in person, and who may judge me at times, but at least they're honest with me -- without succumbing to this attempt at inflicting drama.

I don't know who you are, so how am I supposed to do that?

Oh, great. That doesn't come across as creepy at all.

I don't know for sure who asked this question, but if it's who I think it is, I suggest you try asking it again, while looking in the mirror.

Funny story, I'm actually a little bit of both. I love singing and performing but I'm also very insecure, and have a tendency to get shy around people who I find particularly interesting or attractive. Yet among my friends I am often the loudest and most boisterous in the crowd, breaking into showtunes in parking lots and telling humorous stories (at least, I hope they're humorous!)

Just my baby toes. Both of them, separately. I can't recall how I did the one, but the other was broken quite spectacularly, while diving across the living room to prevent my sister's dog from eating my cat. So spectacularly, in fact, that said toe needed to be more or less pieced back together. Both bone and skin were broken and if I'd gone to the doctor they probably wouldn't have bothered trying to save it (I mean, come on, it's a baby toe.) It did, in fact, make a full recovery.

Dishes. Something about sticking my hands into a vat of vile, greasy water with bits of food in it makes me want to puke. And if someone leaves a napkin on their plate, and that nasty shit gets all soggy and falling apart, forget about it. If we had a dishwasher, it'd be another story.

There are so many things I like cooking -- and eating -- and so many more that I've never tried, that it feels wrong to say one dish or meal is definitely my favorite. I'll commit to this: I love pasta, preferably with either pesto or alfredo sauce, and particularly when there is chicken and/or ricotta cheese involved. That... sort of narrows it down, right? I do love cooking Thai food, but my recent foray into Indian has me wanting to dabble there a little more.

In either case, it depends on the guy. ;)

Well, I'd pay off all my bills, and my parents'. Then I'd probably get myself a decent new vehicle, and I'm sure after that the rest would go pretty quickly to concerts and festivals!

"Would you like a million dollars? Yes? Okay, here you go."

I don't the plural on anything, just as a general rule. Sentences without verbs are dangerous!

Well, I would probably be terrified, for starters. And I would probably say, "Sorry, but no thank you."

Yes, and no. Have you ever heard the saying, "It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean"? Well, it's true. If you're sailing a dinghy, you've got to make up for it with either skill or enthusiasm, but if you're gonna phone it in, you damn well better show up in the QE2.

Oh, jeez. This is pretty tough, because what's 'perfect' to do with one guy is completely wrong with another. It depends on a lot of things, like how well you know each other, and what interests you have in common. That said, I would probably want to do something like going bowling, or just wasting a day at the ocean, climbing on the rocks and walking down by the water, maybe have a picnic or grab some seafood at a little cafe or vendor stand. Carnivals, festivals and arcades are lots of fun, too, lots of stuff to do while getting to know each other. Going to a concert would be cool, especially if the band is someone I know well, so they can vet you for me! (I'm pretty sure I'd date fewer losers if I did that more often.) I'm a low-maintenance girl... you don't have to do a lot to impress me. Being yourself and making me feel comfortable being myself is the most important thing you can do.

I'm not sure, exactly. The city, for sure, but which one is sort of fluid. Toronto looks beautiful. I loved New York and Atlanta, what little I saw of them. All I've seen of Philly and Chicago are the inside of their airports, sadly. But probably Boston. Ever since I first went there as a girl, I've felt like something inside me clicked whenever I was there. Even now, I pretty much look for and grab at any opportunity to spend time in Boston.

Probably that life isn't fair and it doesn't make sense, so the best you can do is enjoy the good stuff when it happens and try not to let the bad stuff get you down.