Can you please provide links for the times you've been a guest poster on your friends' blogs?
sure! here's a couple..
http://www.eat-yourself-skinny.com/2012/02/caprese-pizza-gorgonzola-raspberry.html
http://living4london.blogspot.jp/2011/09/while-im-away.html
http://chelseacoleen.blogspot.jp/2011/11/guest-poster-amanda-from-marshalls.html
http://f-e-s-t.blogspot.jp/2012/02/what-i-learned-in-okinawa.html
