I really don't believe in "best friends." I think that as you get older you learn to appreciate people for different reasons and you have strong, fulfilling connections with each. There are so many people around me that fill my life, that really touch me, and help me be who I am. Friends from childhood that I cherish, friends I see once a year, friends that I see every day. A good friend to me is that person who loves and gives and expects nothing, because I believe too that that is the kind of friend I am. That to me is a "best friend"...also those who buy me gifts and drink with me and tell me I look good even when I'm fat. :)