I'm pretty good at my job & at keeping the family finances in good shape. But the one thing I'm really good at is loving my family because that is what drives everything else I do.

How sad that you're not man or woman enough to take responsibility for your own small-minded remarks. As Ms. Ela's Mother I have had to scramble all of her life to keep up with her intelligence, as she is one of the sharpest, most quick-witted, exceptional people I know. She is a lovely young woman on the outside, and even more lovely on the inside. I feel sorry for you because I believe you may be someone I've met and cared about...and with this kind of sad, wretched, pitiable attempt to belittle her, you are only making yourself small. Really . . . sad. :(