We are getting on great thanks :) i don't see her as much as i would hope to and sometimes when we are both online at the same time we don't get to spend such quality time together because one of us in ill/tired/pissy/distracted etc. But i think that's the same with any online relationship. The important thing is that we are still there for each other, we still love and care for each other, we are still supportive of each other and i believe that we always will.

When meeting a potential sub for a first meeting, and a time is set up and I (Dom) say a different time and he corrects it what should the Doms response. Mind you he is looking for a non sexual relationship and get to know one another and I be his superior.... (question cuts off)

As i've said before it is very difficult for me to give advice to others on how to run their BDSM relationships because there's such a huge variety of them. But in this case my general thoughts would be that since the two of you are not in any kind of relationship at all yet, keep things simple, don't expect him to mindlessly obey your every command, especially if you change your original agreement and see where things go. Later you can set rules about the level of obedience you expect.

Why don't you drive?

A few reasons: firstly my parents never had a car when i was growing up (though my Dad can drive but hasn't for years and years) so i got used to walking or taking a bus or train. Therefore it wasn't automatic for me to rush out and take my driving test when i was 17. Since then i have always lived close to town with a good bus service and a direct train line to London and other major towns and i have always worked near my house, so again no real need to learn to drive. Now i don't really have the time to learn, though once the children are older and at school, who knows....?

I would love to see blogs written by Masters like yours who somehow micromanage everything you do ESPECIALLY when the family includes kids~i find it almost unbelievable that couls happen on a 24/7 basis

i think you'd be surprised what goes on behind closed doors in some houses! It isn't that difficult to run a 24/7 M/s relationship with children if both parties are commited. And i too would like to see more decent blogs written by Dom/mes but i think there's less need for them to blog than for subs, they get less out of it, so i don't really see it happening. However, check out my blogroll in the sidebar for some excellent Dom/me blogs.

Hi Libby just want to say thank you I have enjoyed your blog so much that you have inspired me to start my own. My question has to do with your blog. How did you set it up so that your blobs are in panels like that.

i just looked for a template/ blog skin that already had that feature! Sorry, i'm not very good on the computer so i wouldn't be able to modify another template to have the front page like this, but i think there's several versions of this design available - just google :)

Hi Libby, I was wondering if your Sir has rules with regards to your appearance, i.e. clothes and hair style. Can you go to the hairdresser without asking him? I struggle with this a bit, since my Sir's choices are not always my own. How is this for you?

You can see my current rules from the link at the top of my blog, but basically yes there are rules about my appearance (and several other unwritten rules in this area which i also follow). Sir has certain preferences regarding the types of clothes i buy which i make sure i stick to, He likes my hair long so i keep it that way but can go to the hairdresser for a trim when needed, He likes my finger and toenails neatly polished at all times (but i can choose the colours), He chooses which toiletries, perfumes, etc. i will buy and use, He specifies how i am to keep my pussy (shaved) and how often to do so, etc, etc. i haven't really struggled with these rules to be honest as i knew to expect them when i entered into this relationship, but good luck with adapting to your own rules.