I'm an Aries :)

maybe you should ask her out on a date, maybe she's tired of being the one who asks and she wants you to show you're interested. Or maybe she's now in a relationship and not looking for casual sex or something?

Ask her out if you want to keep seeing her, let her know you're keen. It's surprising how attractive people find it when you're straight up about liking them.

I really don't check this at all.. if you want a fast response you're probably best asking on my tumblr http://lauraclaireful.tumblr.com/ask

Being possessive is normal, but feeling jealous really sucks. Believe me, everyone else on this planet has probably once felt the same way. If you can't stop thinking about her with her exes then you don't trust her, and you need to address that problem. If you find you can't do that on your own, maybe talk it out with your girlfriend so that she can give you the reassurance you need.

yes! Harry Potter obviously :D it would be so fucking cool not to be a muggle.

and I'm really glad to hear I've helped you come to terms with the possibility that you may be bisexual

Dude that shit's a trap. I'm very sorry to everyone who got it off me, that's the last time I blindly do something somebody tells me to..

..or at least that's the last time for a short while before I go ahead and do something stupid in the near future..

i wish i could manipulate time, rewind, pause, record, that would be really fucking cool

depends on the girl! think about how they'd like somebody to tell them ie. are they the kind of person who wants you to make a big gesture or something small and cute? the more individual and personal you can make it the better.

for me it's letters, or in general words. i'm better at writing things down than i am at saying them out loud.

some ideas for you, get a book, ring some words on the page, if she asks you why you're giving her a book, say 'just because' orrr depending on how juvenile you are get a post-it note and stick it on her back, when she takes it off and looks at it ;D you could have a really cute line on there or a short note. or just straight up write a love letter but tone down on the 'love' part just admit that you were nervous about revealing how much you liked her.

thank ya

I don't know this person either.

I don't know that person.

i'm shocked people still ask me questions on formspring to be honest :p

well thank ya! :D

based on gender roles, nah, giving and receiving. it's not good sex otherwise i think, good sex is about connecting with somebody and you can't connect with somebody if you're not willing to trust them and be vulnerable like that. plus if you both prefer giving rather than receiving then take one for the team occasionally :p

oooh, that's an interesting thought..

i think that might be the case for some, if you're uncomfortable with your gender and anatomy you're going to want to avoid having attention drawn to that, but it could also be just to do with labels the 'stone butch' kind of 'shane' image more to do with commitment issues rather than gender dysphoria?

..it could also be a self esteem thing, not necessarily gender dysphoria.. for example if your girlfriend is a total pillow princess you might feel like she's not interested in touching you in return, which would eventually make you uncomfortable with the idea or awkward or something...

people really don't hit on my all the time, hahahaha

i don't think the way i dress makes me act more masculine, i don't think i'm any more protective than more feminine girls, i do open doors, like car doors or hold doors and stuff but i don't think that's necessarily a masculine trait 'gentlemanly' behaviour is mostly just common courtesy whether you're a guy, a gay guy, a girl, a gay girl?

i think i would feel comfortable dating a lesbian who was also a little more masculine than me, i don't see myself as 'butch' as such, it's not a label i feel really stuck to or anything.

sure thanggg

world peace and prosperity? ;D

i wish i could manipulate time. that's what i'd wish for.

um..? i don't know.. a piano i guess..

uh.. soft? like.. cotton? ...i really hate the feel of velvet, it kind of makes me cringe