I am not familiar with enough studies to feel qualified to answer that.
I'd direct that question to gurl.com

Wow... I don't really know.
Central or South America seem appealing (culturally speaking) but I've never visited.
Of the places I've visited, the UK and Germany were amazing.
But because I have such a hard time learning new languages, I'm not sure.

A caribbean island that Cruise Ships don't go to seems like my top pick. Paradise, community, great prices from what I've researched... And yet peace and quiet in your home. :-)

We came pretty close to moving to an island a couple years ago and telling no one but close family where we were... Just forging a new life there.
Maybe in a few years we will still do that. I don't know... We will see!

Boredom does not inspire attraction to a same sex partner... It's something we are born with and we develop at very young ages.
About 1.8% of people openly identify as bisexual. That is including men and women.
Of course we have to suspect more people feel bisexual than those who openly admit to it.
Depending on which study you want to believe, between 10-15% of people claim to have had same-sex sexual attractions at some point in their life.

Whether a hymen has been torn or stretched out doesn't dictate virginity. Virginity is a state of being where you have not shared sex with someone. And I want to emphasize... People _share_ their virginity... They don't LOSE it!!
To see if your hymen has torn or stretched you'd need to study what torn and untorn ones look like! Then use a mirror to inspect your lady parts. :-)
Ultimately no, it doesn't really matter (and keep in mind that in rare cases, women can be born without a hymen!).

The slippage likely allowed fluids to get under (and perhaps your fluids to get out from under) the condom. Bodily fluid, nor any of the molecules that make it up, can pass THROUGH a condom. However, anytime it slips, the barrier is compromised.

If the original intention was to watch something erotic and in the process, they actually learned something, then I think that's a powerful tool/platform.
As for watching my videos solely to get off or something like that... There are a lot sexier, steamier videos they could easily, and likely will, find.

The sex coaching? Yes. I've been pretty slow processing applications, but I'm working with a few (and will move forward with several more when I get back from Mexico). Always looking for more good applicants where we're compatible. :-)

There are _hundreds_ of positions already listed in books. The chances you found a new one that is pleasurable to both partners would be surprising.
The only way to make money would be to create a patent and then market it either to publishers (by writing a whole book around it) or magazines (your best bet), or _maybe_ to sex shops like Adam&Eve (I have no idea if they would be interested)
And it all depends on what this position is to say if I'd be interested.

People assume I'm a nymphomaniac or that I'm "horny all the time" just because I discuss sex.
The concept is absurd.
It happens to be my field of study and my current career (Where I also got a degree in Psychology with an emphasis in human sexuality).

But when I hang out with friends, I don't dominate the conversation with (or for that matter, rarely bring up) sex talk.
I have MANY passions. You guys just happen to see my passion for healthy human sexuality because that's the JOB you guys see!

I don't know where you get that idea...

I don't think youngins should be having sex (14 and below)... But the right time varies for everyone.
If you (or your partner) is on, and taking, birth control perfectly, AND you're using condoms, and MOST importantly the two of you can openly discuss sex... Then the right time will be clear to you.

I don't have an arbitrary age where I feel your age qualifies you to have healthy sex.

I cannot make rules about morality. And it would be wrong for me to say that you should go against your religion's teachings.
That said, with some scientific studies, they show the benefit of masturbation. I tend to feel it should continue even when you're in a relationship or marriage (for both the girl and guy).
And in medical journals we learn that an orgasm a day reduces the chances of prostate cancer (for guys obviously) and has other health benefits.
So I can't talk about morality (though I personally have no moral problem with it). But I can talk science.
Hope something in this post helped.

Nope! That's not going to harm you.

Chances are the hymen was stretched or torn (that's what happens, Some people, however, have been taught over the years that the hymen is this thin membrane that totally or mostly covers the opening and that it vanishes once once insertion occurs {Some woman do have a hymen that's obstructive... But in those cases a doctor has to numb the area and create a laceration).
So in the sense of pain at the opening, she shouldn't have much of any.
Still, unless it's a common practice for her to use a dildo, it could take awhile for the vaginal canal to become used to something (like a penis) in it.
So go slow at first (slow movements) is essential)!
Best of luck! :-)

If those chunks are a white color (even among the blood), she might have a yeast infection (most women have one at some point ). If she goes to her doctor, (s)he can test if it's that (or even a bacterial infection).. If it doesnt doesn't go away, or there is a lot of itching, she absolutely needs to go to her Dr.

If you guys cannot afford a doctor you can get an over the counter yeast infection treatment. If that doesn't make it better (within. 5 days or so) she MUST see a doctor!
Infections left untreated can case fertility issues!

If she gets yeast infections easily, use a lube without sugar or glycerin.

And I've never heard of what you're described as being a symptom of pregnancy!

Argh! My first response got deleted.

Here we go again.

Don't ever use oil based lubricants with latex condoms.

Leave room at the tip for ejaculate.

Buy from trusted brands.

If its possibly a size issue, order custom fit condoms. (Google the term 'custom fit condoms' and you'll find it)

Take a refresher course on how to properly use them. (many websites cover this)

Make sure they aren't expired.

Make sure they don't contain spermicides as some have thought those might weaken condoms.

Make sure you aren't storing them in a hot place or where they receive wear and tear (like a wallet, etc).

That's all I've got at 4am after losing my first attempt at a response!! Hope you get it figured out! If you don't, perhaps consider getting on a hormonal birth control.

I know Plan B can be really rough for some, but it's still far less miserable than an unwanted pregnancy!

To run a brain health center. A place where every issue could be dealt with... We'd have psychologists, counselors, addiction-specialists, psychiatrists, neurologists, bio-feedback technicians, social workers, etc. And I would want to have as much funding from non-profits and grants as possible (plus ask each employee to donate 2 hours a week) in order to treat those who otherwise cannot afford mental health treatment (or marital counseling, etc).
It's been my dream for nearly a decade. I thought it wouldn't be possible... But it turns out some opportunities have come up that might mean I'll one day see my dream become a reality.

Wikipedia gives a good summation of the very wide variance in percentages on their page on bisexuality, under the section on prevalence.
I would add that a lot more people likely have fantasies about both men and women at some point in their lives than the number of people who openly identify as bisexual for two reasons.
First, many people are not (nor should they necessarily need to be) open about their sexual preferences.
Secondly, having a fantasy now and again about the gender opposite to the one you're primarily interested in does not make a person bisexual. Bisexuality, especially if we go off of a Kinsey model (he disliked the term btw), is where male or female sexual and romantic partners are equally as attractive to a person.
An illustration of my point would be... Let's say a woman is primarily attracted to men. However, at one or more times in her life she has found herself sexually attracted to another woman. Perhaps she even were to have a sexual experience or entire relationship with a woman.
Ultimately, she decides she's primarily attracted to men. There is a high likelihood that she might not self-identify as bisexual.
(The exact same scenario can apply to men of course!)

I also get the question often about whether a newly formed curiosity regarding the same sex is evidence of boredom in a relationship. I don't think it is. I think curiosities are healthy. But I don't think that warrants cheating. And I've never seen a threesome (where a third party is brought into a relationship) improve a relationship... Then again I've only had a handful of friends who have tried and am sure some couples end up better for it.
I guess my point there is that very often things are _really_ hot in our fantasies, but wouldn't be as great if brought into our realities. In those cases, continue to fantasize, maybe even encorporate it into some dirty talk!!

Hope that sheds some light on the topic...

If you have discussed this with him and he still does it behind your back, that's a problem. Especially if you're willing/desiring to have sex as often as he's choosing porn instead.
If you don't have a problem with porn but just with him doing it secretively, perhaps you can suggest watching it together.
If its at a time when you can't have sex, encourage him to masturbate with you... Maybe let him look at you naked, etc.

In other words, tell him that you're willing to work on options, but that you are severely hurt by his dishonesty and that it makes you unable to trust him!
I believe we all deserve a little "sexy alone time"... Whether that's reading erotica, romance novels, or watching porn. But I also believe in not hurting our partners or making them uncomfortable.

If he continues to frequently go behind your back after you have worked to accommodate him sexually, then you have a MAJOR problem!!
You would then have to reassess your relationship and the future of it!

Yes, the patch is considered to be as effective if we're talking about perfect use. Originally it was thought that the effective rate of typical use would be higher for the patch because you only have to remember weekly! However, recent studies have shown that many women forget to change the patch on the correct day. So typical use effectiveness is lower for the patch for this reason.
However, if you are confident that you could remember every week to change it on the same day, I recommend it highly! It's the birth control I use (and love!).
My doctor even prescribes it so that I only have 4 periods a year (thus applying a new patch on the fourth week when you would normally not wear one).
If you chose to try it, I hope you have as great of an experience as I do with it.
Remember that other, more long-term forms of birth control include the Nuva-Ring (I've tried it and my husband said he truly couldn't feel it during sex. About twice during the month it slipped too far down the vaginal canal and I had to push it back up.)
Also there is the shot. There are monthly and quarterly versions. I'd suggest trying one month to begin to see if you like it. Some drawbacks are that it can either eliminate your period that whole time, give you on and off spotting, continuous spotting, or in rare cases, it can cause a period the entire time (but is eventually supposed to stop with time). I don't recommend the shot to anyone with a history of depression because it's a progesterone only treatment (which can lower the mood).
If the shot works well, an even longer-acting option is the implant.
Also, there are the IUDs. Hormonal and non-hormonal (copper).

(I know that's a lot more than what you asked but hopefully this answer can help a lot of other people as well.)

I am working with a lady who has created an awesome new toy (that's really revolutionary!!). It's called FixSation. You can find it at MyFixSation.com
I find that guys don't find it as threatening as some other toys because it still requires their involvement.
Also, the guys I've talked to say the sensation they get from it is "interesting" and/or "enjoyable".
It helps so many women be able to reach orgasm for perhaps the first time ever from penetration-only sex!
Also, they sell some matching really sexy, high quality lingerie!! My husband was quite enthusiastic!
I love it that you're looking to spice things up with a toy! Drop me a note here or on Facebook to let me know what you think!