I think it's something that only you can know. The one thing I don't ever really want in my life are "what ifs" and I think that's the problem people get to when they're not completely fulfilled in a relationship - ending it seems too extreme but talking about problems often comes across as being petty and turns into arguments when it shouldn't, and you continue being unhappy. The best way I've found to avoid this altogether is be totally honest about what you want and expect from a relationship from the start. But, if you're at the "too far gone" mark and your needs aren't being met and you don't know how much more you can take, you need to sit down with your partner and talk. You can't yell, get defensive or mean, or put the blame on all one person. You have to say - look, you're a great person and I've felt a bit unfulfilled lately. I love it when you do this and this and this, can you do it more often? It's important for me to feel like this and this and this in a relationship and you deserve those things too - and if we can't give that to each other, we both deserve the opportunity to find other people who can. You'll know in your heart when you've done all you can and put in as much effort as you can. And if you've done that, you've no what-ifs - as then it's the other person who will probably have them.

nicht jeder entscheidet sich dafür vegetarisch zu leben. das musst du genauso akzeptieren.
ich bewundere menschen die ohne Fleisch leben, ich könnte das nicht.

ja, unsere ganze beziehung findet ausschließlich in meinem kopf statt. was sonst?! ich verrate euch noch was: wir existieren in wirklichkeit gar nicht. in wirlichkeit bin ich ein fetter, arbeitsloser typ der vorm pc sitzt, sich figuren ausgedacht hat und sich die nüsse abfreut, dass alle drauf reinfallen.

I am not a wedding photographer by trade. I am a photographer, mainly focusing on portraits and conceptual portraits. For as long as I've been doing weddings, I've been doing portraiture (self portraiture in particular) three times as long. I don't feel like because I do wedding photography, I should censor my main photography.

Any photographers portfolio should show diversity. I need to be able to show that I am capable of taking any kind of photo - whether it be nude, fully clothed, a wedding portrait, one-off moment, dark surrealism or a boudoir photoshoot. I don't know if you've read my blog, but I recently set up boudoir shoots and those images were actually taken (along with models in actual underwear - not tank tops and shorts at a later date) to advertise these shoots.

Ask anyone who knows me and they will tell you I am one of the most clean cut, cheerful, polite and friendly people you will meet. I go to weddings dressed very appropriately, infact I go everywhere dressed appropriately. You will not find pictures of me "being a slut" in my tagged facebook pictures, you won't find pictures of me "getting hammered" and you won't find me tweeting vulgar comments. You won't find me responding rudely to formspring questions, or even answering the insulting ones.

I am the kind of person who thinks it's not okay to write in to people anonymously and call them, or what they do "slutty". I find that far more offensive than a bit of side boob. I'm booking weddings with brides who have open minds to my main photography, whether it be the portraits of kids smoking, side boob, bloody portraits or massive strawberries. They're the brides I want, so it works well for all of us.

Meine Lieblingsthemen - Menschen in ihrer natürlichen Umwelt ;) Tolle Locations sind einfach nochmal so schön, wenn ein schöner Mensch drin steht. Und für mich sind alle Menschen schön. Es gibt immer etwas schönes am Menschen. Sehr gerne mag ich auch meine "Memento Mori" Projekte. Schaurig schön. Mit Natur pur, Architektur, Produktfotografie und so weiter komme ich nicht so klar. Selbst bei Katalogfotos finde ich sie lebendiger, wenn ein Mensch mit drin ist. Ein Maschinenbau-Katalog mit Menschen das wär doch mal was ;) Außerdem wickle ich gern Menschen ein. Egal ob in Frischhaltefolie, Laub, Rinde, Stoff. Pure Nacktheit finde ich unerotisch. Aber so ein bisschen Haare zum verdecken oder ein Ast von einem Baum und schon wird es interessant.