Hard is an understatement. My three tips are cry when and where you need to, your home must be your sanctuary or you won't survive, and always remember mom is just a phone call away. And secret tip number four is don't lick the subway hand rails, carry sanitizer always.

Because you're not Katy Perry.

Yah I have. My favorite game is love games. But no. Seriously, Diablo 2. Playing D3 now though, so might change my opinion in a week. For the record, it all began with Kings Quest 4.

I left vh1 and now I'm Managing Editor at Portable.tv. I also contribute to Thought Catalog once a week.

I fucking love the use of 8. That is no shit my favorite way to communic8.

Can I be your spirit animal?

We should all do a lot of things. The important thing about being my fan is firstly not to take anything too seriously. Secondly, it's to accept fault in both me and yourself. Tell me you have honestly never honestly worried about what to wear on a date and I will eat my hat. I will of course need to buy a hat first, because I don't actually have a hat. Finally, thanks for enjoying my writing! I'll e back on thought catalog this week! Xx

Go over there on night looking effortlessly sexy and ask him for some sugar. Be sure to lean on the door frame seductively and take a mug and wag it cutely in his face when you ask. Try and stick your tits out too.

It's my pleasure completely xx

Of course! I am naked without my food child.

Thanks for taking the time to say so, that's very sweet! xx

Girls are great!

I'm glad that you feel you know me so well simply from reading my blog. You seem like someone who makes incredibly well informed hypothesis.

Many years ago while in school I started a blog and the rest just snowballed. It's still a tough gig but you just have to put yourself out there and constantly be working at it!

Please don't explode! I don't know what's up but you can change anything, you just have to want to.

Yeah I'm a geek/perfectionist.

We normally catch up every few weeks or so for a drink!

I work full time, 9-5 in an office yes. Then I go home at the end of the day and work from my bed/desk/couch on nights and weekends.

I don't worry what people think of me at all, no. I know who I am, and I know what I do. There is also a huge difference between having a lot of sex with a lot of people and talking a lot about the sex you do have -- in terms of sexual partners, I haven't had that many, and I'm a One Guy At A Time sort of girl, but regardless, I don't think "slut" is a thing. You make your own decisions about what is right for you and it's none of anyone else's business.

I'm not sure i understand this question.