This is a tough one. *I* would also like to move to the other side of the country, but in my case I have to stay where the job is.

If you're in a more flexible position in terms of your work, I guess the first think to do would be look for employment for you or your husband first, then set everything else in motion. I have no helpful thoughts on the home business, though, as I am a lifelong renter. Selling a house sounds awfully .... labor intensive.

So I guess start with the work, career, livelihood level of things and see where that takes you?

Good luck! That's an exciting thing to be thinking about!