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I usually call people out on it to their face, or if they've REALLY made an ass of themselves, I'd do it right then and there. However... if you have a special case like I recently did.... ugh.
I had a friend for 9 years, and she has always made herself my "best" friend. It was so humiliating to be out somewhere with her, especially if I was around a crowd of strangers. She would always say the WORST thing at the WORST possible time to the WORST possible person. Things like calling one of my friends who was already self-conscious of being half-hispanic "only a half-breed." THIS WAS THEIR FIRST MEETING, btw. I tried to put up with her bad attitude because I felt sorry for her and she had NO OTHER FRIENDS, but in the end, you are who you hang out with. Awful traits of her personality started to rub off on me (come on, after 9 years you start to rub off on each other) and I knew that I had to get away from it. So, I don't speak to her at all anymore. It's been great, I don't have to listen to any stupid self-inflicted drama, I don't have to worry if people think I am like her, etc. It has been glorious and though she still tries to contact me, I don't. 9 years was enough, and if she hasn't learned to be a nicer person by now, she needs to hit rock bottom if she ever will.
TL;DR: I don't! I have enough problems of my own to get someone else to get their shit together. Bitches don't get friends. -
I call them out on it privately. If they don't listen, I try to encourage the person being taken advantage of to stand up for themselves. You can't force people to do anything, but you can help them better themselves.
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That's very sweet, but I am happy as a clam with Kevin. :) Why not try shooting for a lovely single girl?
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Hmmm... sometimes I wish I wasn't so damned nice. Some people really just don't deserve it. I grew up always being taught to be super polite, even to assholes, so even if someone is a jerk to me I have to make a very conscious decision NOT to be nice to them. =/ 2010 was definitely good to me because I tried to be a little more selfish. :)
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Vegan zombies are actually never hungry, they just dance. Watch Thriller, they're all vegans.
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$10,000 to give all of my friends and family epic Christmas gifts. I wish I wasn't broke. =( I know the season isn't all about the presents, but I don't want people to think I don't care about them whenever they give me something and I have nothing...
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Nah. There wouldn't be any point. I'd rather use that day to create new memories than try to cling to the past. :)
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Oh awesome, I didn't know that. I hardly ever come on here at all anymore! I just check back whenever my inbox fills up with formspring Q's....
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:D Thank you soooooo much! I really appreciate the compliment, super flattered! ^_^ I hope I haven't been giving off unapproachable vibes... =( my apologies if so...
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Seeing a father play with his kids. It revives my faith in humanity every time, no matter how shit-tier my day is.
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$50 to waste on solid and spiral steel corset boning. I NEED IT SO BAD but I'm so broke. ;_;
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OMFG why you do dis to me/!? I love it all!!!!! Ummmm.... sweet potato casserole. Dem marshmallows! <3
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I actually have no idea what that is.... sorry!
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Hmmm, I'm not sure yet, but likely AX and DragonCon. :D I don't think I will be attending Otakon or NYCC, but I will definitely try if school permits. Thanks for asking!
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Jumping off of a building. I am terrified of high heights, but I'd still like to experience the thrill before I die. Fuck sky-diving, I'd rather just take that kind of risk when I were ready to die.
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Wipe the dog poo on the exam distributor as he walks by so he has to excuse himself. In the meantime, I could cheat!
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Cristine’s Bio
Hi everyone! My name is Cristine Peña and I am a big softie. I love meeting people and sharing what I have with my friends, but please, no drama. I will listen to your problems but at the end of the day, it's you that has to take that first step.
