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    1. Jozen
      jozenc 15 Jun 12

      Hi ! I have a crush on a young Jamaican man I've never met. All I know about him is a video , a few pictures and a short conversation we had on skype. I send him some emails, he answers but always very late. How can I get him more interested in me?

      Can you finish this question please?

    2. Jozen
      jozenc 10 Feb 12

      I was to timid to express my feelings to my guy friend. He recently started dating this girl now everytime im around them my heart sinks. My feelings for a still VERY strong, what should I do?

      Listen to the answer in Poppin' Questions Podcast 33 http://untiligetmarried.com/2012/02/10/poppin-questions-podcast-33/

    3. Jozen
      jozenc 10 Feb 12

      I was seeing this guy we broke up and now I been dating/having sex with his best friend. His bf and I love each other. How do we go about telling him?

      Listen to the answer in Poppin' Questions Podcast 33 http://untiligetmarried.com/2012/02/10/poppin-questions-podcast-33/

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      jozenc 10 Feb 12

      I got out of a long term rel & hitting the dating world, but I'm not getting a lot of interest. I'm a naturally smiley person so I don't think I'm not approachable. Friends say I still carry myself like I'm taken... What does tht mean & how do u fix that?

      Listen to the answer in Poppin' Questions Podcast 33 http://untiligetmarried.com/2012/02/10/poppin-questions-podcast-33/

    5. Jozen
      jozenc 10 Feb 12

      I've been celibate for 5 years now, I just got out of a very on again, off again relationship. Basically,now, I need to get laid. I'm thinking abt going throwback (not recent ex) for the sake or familiarity but don't want him to get a big head. Would you?

      Listen to the answer in Poppin' Questions Podcast 33 http://untiligetmarried.com/2012/02/10/poppin-questions-podcast-33/

    6. Jozen
      jozenc 10 Feb 12

      What is the point of remaining friends with a former flame? He insists but I refuse to be one of the millions of females that is now his "homegirl". Is that fair?

      Listen to the answer in Poppin' Questions Podcast 33 http://untiligetmarried.com/2012/02/10/poppin-questions-podcast-33/

    7. Jozen
      jozenc 9 Feb 12

      The past 2 months I've been hanging out a lot with a guy. We're attracted to and care about each other, and he tells me all the time I'm an amazing woman. BUT He has a GF of over a year. We've cuddled but never kissed. Any chance he'd leave her for me?

      Answered in Poppin' Questions Podcast 32 http://untiligetmarried.com/2012/02/01/poppin-questions-podcast-episode-32/

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      jozenc 9 Feb 12

      I like brilliant men...who tend to have very high powered public jobs. A politician's wife once told me to "accept the price of admission" when dating a man with a demanding job, but i also hear "a man who want you makes time for you". what's realistic??

      Answered in Poppin' Questions Podcast 32 http://untiligetmarried.com/2012/02/01/poppin-questions-podcast-episode-32/

    9. Jozen
      jozenc 9 Feb 12

      I am reaching a point where I realize how overrated "smart" is in a woman. Men usually care that you're not-dumb, can hold a convo, but it's not really a dealbreaker HOW smart a woman is. Have you ever known men who had intellect as their dating priority?

      Answered in Poppin' Questions Podcast 32 http://untiligetmarried.com/2012/02/01/poppin-questions-podcast-episode-32/

    10. Jozen
      jozenc 9 Feb 12

      is it a bad sign when a woman tweets/fbooks constantly about her relationship/engagement/partner when her partner/fiance/man doesn't make their relationship part of his digital presence?

      Answered in Poppin' Questions Podcast 32 http://untiligetmarried.com/2012/02/01/poppin-questions-podcast-episode-32/

    11. Jozen
      jozenc 9 Feb 12

      I have a question that is too long for formspring, even though I have tried to shorten it. Is there anywhere I can send you my long question besides this forum.

      feedback@untiligetmarried.com

    12. Jozen
      jozenc 1 Feb 12

      I'm 39, he's 35. Been together for 10 yrs. No marriage, no urgency for him. My question is...honestly, do guys buy the milk after getting it for free or do they become lactose intolerant?

      Be more specific with this question, please. I don't really follow here.

    13. Jozen
      jozenc 1 Feb 12

      Can you make it so that I can follow or subscribe to this blog. I thoroughly enjoy it!

      You already can. Look for the orange square box with the three white stripes, that's our RSS feed.

    14. Jozen
      jozenc 29 Mar 11

      Do you believe that an isolated, undocumented incident of domestic violence in a man's (or woman's) past relationship should be a reason to stop dating him (or her)?

      Answered in Poppin' Questions Podcast Episode 30: http://untiligetmarried.com/2011/03/29/poppin-questions-podcast-episode-30/

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      jozenc 29 Mar 11

      So I found out my sister slept with a guy I used to date (it ended because he did me dirty), how do I let it go. I just can't believe she knew that he hurt me and did not feel enough loyalty to not mess with him. What if it was ur bf, how wld u handle it

      Answered in Poppin' Questions Podcast Episode 30: http://untiligetmarried.com/2011/03/29/poppin-questions-podcast-episode-30/

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      jozenc 29 Mar 11

      Im thinking about trying anal sex w a guy im dating for the first time. its his first time too. how do i bring up the subject and make him comfortable enough to go through w it?

      Answered in Poppin' Questions Podcast Episode 30: http://untiligetmarried.com/2011/03/29/poppin-questions-podcast-episode-30/

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      jozenc 29 Mar 11

      My guy & I hav n awesome relationship! Everythin is perfect except his mom HATES me. No idea why . He says that shes jus very over protective of him & grew close 2 his ex. Idc that shes likes his ex I just wish she wud accept me! How can i win her over?

      Answered in Poppin' Questions Podcast Episode 30: http://untiligetmarried.com/2011/03/29/poppin-questions-podcast-episode-30/

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      jozenc 29 Mar 11

      What is your perspective on women proposing to men?

      Answered in Poppin' Questions Podcast Episode 30: http://untiligetmarried.com/2011/03/29/poppin-questions-podcast-episode-30/

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      jozenc 6 Mar 11

      Do guys know how horrible it feels for a girl when we let you in physically and after the fact, you decide you're not interested? That ish hurts even after a brief connection... Do guys feel that too?

      Yes we know how horrible it feels because yes, it's done to us on occasion and we feel it too. The human condition is such that people do things to each other even when we know we don't want it done to each other.

    20. Jozen
      jozenc responded to RealisticLove 6 Mar 11

      What is a deal breaker for you? Something you are just like.... girl no.

      I'd answer this if I haven't already touched on this numerous times in the blog through various posts. Scroll through the archives and you'll find some post about deal breakers like women who rhyme out loud along to hardcore rap lyrics.

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