i think the definition of being a moslem, or any other religion for that matter is quite objective. my definition of being muslim is basically believing that you're muslim and that you always remember who nabi muhammad s.a.w is and who allah s.w.t is in your life. to me that is enough, because at the end of the day, nobody counts your sins or good deeds, they only count how much of Islam is embedded in your life and that is immeasurable.

and thank you for the compliment:)