I am with Rowan all day every day. I did not go back to work and she does not go to daycare. I think I spend plenty of time with her. I am really not concerned for the 2 times I have been away from her other than the odd date night with Kev. I don't think there is anything wrong with her spending time bonding with Kev or her Grandparents while I just went to Austin or when I was in NYC.