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    1. jane

      Haha, wow I haven't answered a question on formspring in forever! Thanks for your long answer, I really enjoyed reading it :)

      I hope that I'll be stronger than I am now, and also softer than I am now. I hope that I can change so I accept and understand the difficulties I'm going to go through but I won't let it jade or harden me.

      Being stronger to me means having more humility and control over my pride. I'd consider it a success if one day I can face an obstacle with immediate acceptance and get back up without first despairing and sulking.

      Being softer also requires humbling on my part, because I often push people away. It's difficult for me to reach out to people and offer something without it being uncomfortably close. My feelings get hurt pretty easily, and I don't take rejection very well. But I've noticed that people who give more, receive more as well. And I'm starting to realize that it's a little lonely the way I am now.

      And of course all those little things that fall in between of every day life. Like I hope next year I'll come back with a more mature presence, healthy body, a dream job to work towards, something I'm passionate about.

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      I am going to ucsd, and studying biochem I need to go send my final transcript soon. -_-

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      I honestly have no idea. I'm really not the type of girl who plans these things out, especially way in advance. I think even if i had to plan my real wedding I wouldn't really care as long as the people I cared about were there and that it was somewhere nice, and we could all just happily celebrate.

      I just think that if you keep your expectations realistic to low, you won't be let down easily and be pleased more often. Romantic ideas are really nice to imagine, but are deathly if you expect them to be reality.

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      This one is a pretty easy answer for me! He can't have a bad temper. I just can't deal with yelling, anger and aggression. It's pretty much what I've dealt with my entire life, and honestly it scares me a lot whenever I hear my dad scream or my mom scream. Even if it's not direct towards me, when they fight it's really frightening.

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      A small town like in the movies with all that heartwarming stuff. Doesn't it seem like such a good place to put a break on your life and just find tons of reasons to be happy?

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      I'm the type of person to not know what my pet peeves are until I actually experience something that annoys me.

      I hate it when my sleeves get wet when I wash my hands or my face.

      Haha I don't know. I don't really remember small things. And if something does annoy me, I try to get over it quickly.

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      The one thing I can think of right now is that I'm not very good at being welcoming or opening to people. I can seem distant and stand offish as a first impression. And it's frustrating because I admire people who can make anyone feel happy to be around them and comfortable. I strive to be like that and that was what I wished for, for a very long time.

      A couple of years ago, people were really hesitant to approach me because it seemed like I didn't want them to when really I wasn't comfortable enough to approach them. But it's a work in progress, I'm getting better at it. I mean I remember a time when I felt awkward hugging people or even my older sister because it was physical and emotional intimacy that I wasn't really exposed to growing up. And now I'm all good with hugging haha.

      I still think that it's somewhat difficult but it's much better than before.

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      I like University of Chicago because it's really a diverse community. From the reviews I've read of it, the university is amazing in almost all aspects with really passionate teachers, and the environment is very unique and different. I know that I will always find a brilliant mind with a different perspective to talk to. Plus it's also in Chicago, a city filled with culture that isn't so hyped up like NYC is. I also liked University of Chicago from the time my older sister told me she wanted to go there and how she liked it. But I wasn't accepted into University of Chicago, so maybe I'll visit the city or try to get an internship there during the summer to really get a feel for it.

      I like UCSD mainly for the more shallow reasons. That it's near a beach, it's in California kind of near home and has nice weather. I'd still find people who are intelligent to talk to, plus the fact that I was accepted in to the school is a big advantage.

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      I would probably go with city. My reasoning isn't that great, but just because I think the beach is supposed to be seen less that way when you are there, the experience is always refreshing and beautiful. I could get used to a city, but also keep having new things to explore.

      But lately, I've been wanting to go somewhere naturey.

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      I really like University of Chicago. But I think I can go anywhere for college, as long as I just get an education. UCSD is another big one, any of the UCs are good too. I really liked University of Rochester too, but it's really far away.

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      I'm 100% korean. Yeah so that would make me pretty dang korean.

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      hmm my favorite memory.. i have no idea haha. if i have a fun or happy time i enjoy it and reflect on it, and move on with my life but i don't have any specific one. but i find myself really missing the old days in middle school when the smallest things caused drama, everyone was growing up, and was really really hilarious.

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