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Him: We haven't done double penetration yet. Other than that, the only other thing left would be a gangbang.
Her: I would like to try the double penetration if it was my boyfriend who was fucking my ass while the other guy fucks me in my pussy. For a gangbang I think I would only want to have three guys at a time...otherwise it would be too much. -
Him: All for it with my girlfriend. Not really into it with other girls. You don't know exactly what they are looking for and I'd rather it just come more naturally. The worst is a girl looks at you while you are fucking her and she asks you to speak dirty to her.
Her: I like when my boyfriend talks dirty to me, but when other people do it to me I find it a little distracting and sometimes not genuine...like they are just talking dirty to talk dirty. -
Him: No one has ever eaten food off of my body. It isn't something I'm into.
Her: At a party last year a girl put icing on my nipples and licked it off them :-) -
Him: No. In fact I think that would fuck up my orgasm.
Her: No No No. I don't want anything popping out of my ass when I orgasm. -
Him: Nope. I don't really see the point.
Her: I haven't done it, but I actually think it would be cool to see what you look like lol. -
Him: We haven't been to either club in quite some time. The simple fact is that both these clubs are hit or miss. Encounters does not have a couples only night and both clubs tend towards an older crowd. At this point we focus on upscale venues that pre-screen its guests to be young and attractive, such as Taste (Club), Behind Closed Doors (Party), Sexxy Mofo (Party), the Hampton's Party (Party) and various house parties.
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Him: We haven't been to either club in quite some time. The simple fact is that both these clubs are hit or miss. Encounters does not have a couples only night and both clubs tend towards an older crowd. At this point we focus on upscale venues that pre-screen its guests to be young and attractive, such as Taste (Club), Behind Closed Doors (Party), Sexxy Mofo (Party), the Hampton's Party (Party) and various house parties.
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Him: My girlfriend hasn't, but I have. It was unexpected when it happened. I was on my back on the floor with a girl riding me. Her husband, instead of playing with my girlfriend, came to us on the floor and penetrated his wife. He was pounding her so hard that she kept moving up my body and at some point I just came out of her pussy. It was interesting, but because it was so unexpected it wasn't as enjoyable as I think it could have been. The whole thing lasted maybe a minute. It turns out that it was a big fantasy of the husband and he just go so turned on when he was watching me fuck his wife that he couldn't help himself.
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Him: Try an online service such as Swing Lifestyle (SLS). Services like SLS have a certification/validation feature where you can read what other couples thoughts were on that specific person. This will give you a better idea of their experience and who they may have been with.
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Him: I'm not into cum shots. I like to finish in the woman I'm fucking (in the condom of course). If for some reason she wants to suck me off to finish me, then in her mouth. Just cumming on a girl never did it for me.
Her: I don't like guys cumming on my face or body. I'd rather them just cum while we are having sex. -
Him: The best thing to do is use a service like Swing Life Style (SLS) and simply arrange to meet several single men at one of the clubs you are attending. We've done this before. I say arrange to meet several because some will flake and you don't know who you will ultimately have chemistry with. Look for guys with certifications so you at least know they've had a real experience with someone before and another couple is in a sense vouching for them. Another thing to do is look for events on SLS that allow single men, but pre-screen the guests. If you just arrive at a lifestyle club that doesn't pre-screen you will find all sorts there.
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Him: No. There are plenty of women that love hung men and other women that don't. We've had numerous swaps and never has anyone ever asked me my size. They will see it when you end up in the bedroom. There are women that have been with large men and feel the sex is uncomfortable. Some of these women may decline to have sex once they see the size, but overall I think that the size of your husband shouldn't be an issue.
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Him: Not sure if there is a language barrier here, but I'm not sure what you are asking.
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Her: I prefer to receive oral. I cum really easy from oral...I can't think of a time someone has gone down on me and I haven't cum from it. Sometimes another girl can smelly or taste funny down there and as far as blowing guys, it just is way better get eaten out than to suck cock.
Him: I like going down on girls a lot, however, if the girl doesn't cum within ten minutes, as far as I'm concerned, foreplay is over. There are plenty of times I've had sex with girls and my cock hasn't gone anywhere near the girl's mouth. To me it is irrelevant. I enjoy sex way more than getting my cock sucked and most of the time would prefer to just get the girl off and go right into sex, skipping the obligatory "I should now suck your cock" phase. -
Her: I would rather be the person having sex. Its pretty cool and a turn on for me.
Him: I would definitely rather be the person having sex and being watched. We've been swinging for about three years now and at this point have had quite a good number of other people watch us having sex. It doesn't bother me at all as long as they don't turn into a "peanut gallery". -
Her: I swallow when I go down on my boyfriend but I have never blown another guy to the point where he would even get close to cumming. I just don't want to swallow or even spit out another guy's cum for that matter. I kinda feel like I would want to know the person better to swallow their cum. I know that sounds funny, even though I'm fucking these guys. Its just a mental thing.
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Him: We have had three threesomes with female friends that are not part of the lifestyle that we've known for years. We only had threesomes with them after we entered into the lifestyle and made them aware of it. We have one couple that talk about doing stuff with us, but the female is very shy and doesn't seem "ready". We have a couple of female friends that have asked to be brought to swinger parties and one that we have brought which ended up in a threesome. We are both extremely flirty with our friends, especially our female friends and many of them know that we swing. I think that as more and more of our female friends realize we are very laid back, drama free and non-needy that we'll only have more FMF threesome experiences with our female friends. As for our single and attached male friends, my girlfriend has only done some light playing (fingering, etc.) with no intention of doing any serious sexual activity simply because most men who are not in the lifestyle simply don't understand boundaries very well or know how to manage their emotions or expectations.
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Him: Taste :-) We have heard mostly good things about Checkmates, but have never been and only bad things about Le Trapeze, but also have never been. We've been to Taste and had a very good time. The place got packed by midnight and there was no shortage of young attractive couples :-)
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Him: The way the New York scene works is that there is typically an abundance of clubs and parties that cater to Couples looking for Single Men on Friday nights. On Saturday nights there are tons of clubs and parties that cater to Couples only/Single Females. There are occasional parties and clubs open on other nights of the week, but we haven't really been to any. We went one time to a couple's house party on a Sunday and other than us, only two other couples showed up. It is really an off night for parties and even if you find one, I think it will be hard to find one that is "good".
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Him: We do not go to strip clubs, so neither of us has any clubs to recommend for you guys. Maybe one of our readers can recommend some couple friendly clubs for you in the comments section of this post on the blog.
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J & J’s Bio
We are an attractive couple in our mid-twenties exploring the New York Swingers Scene :-)
