The features I find most attractive in a man are intelligence, sense of humor, open-mindedness, creativity, and a friendly nature. I love music of many genres, and enjoy people who share a similar craving for discovering new music. I also look for someone who has the ability to challenge me on various levels. I tend to stray from the mainstream in all areas of interest, so - true to form - with men, I tend to do the same. The men from relationships past, have all had very unique qualities that I found attractive. Unfortunately, they also had qualities that I ultimately superseded the positive. Today, I consider myself lucky to be in a relationship with someone who exhibits the positive character traits I mentioned before; he has managed to raise the bar for future candidates - that is, in the event, he and I do not live happily ever after.