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hm well, do you know of any clubs he's in cos you could be like 'oh, i heard you're in this club, i was wondering if..'
try doing things that will make him notice you such as making eye contact and smiling; lots of that! make him see you around more often...not in a stalker-ish way tho!
talk to some of his friends and try to become friends with them then it wouldn't be so weird for you to start talking to him. flirt with him as well.
and i know you're not in any of his classes but it still really isn't too hard, just find out where his gonna be at lunch times and after schools and just make yourself known. ask some of your friends to help as well, preferably if theyre confident. like, they could be with you at times so it doesn't seem like you're following him and he doesn't take the situation as being weird. :) -
same as you would with girls. it might sound hard but it really isn't, boys arent wired too differently from girls apart from the fact that they have a penis and a few other stuff. if you think a guy's cool and you'd like to be friends with him just do what you'd normally do if it was a girl but obviously it would help if you knew the guy's interests and if you talk about thing's you have in common, you're more likely to develop a friendship with them.
also, it isn't gonna help if you go straight for the guy you fancy because it can be awkward and you're always gonna be thinking about impressing him and whatnot.
if you can, approach one his friends you don't fancy cos then it'll be easier to have a conversation with them without you feeling too uncomfortable.
so, basically don't try and think that boys are some sort of alien cos they're not. and if you have that mindset, trust me things will be SOO much easier. :) -
i used to want a boyfriend, tbh i felt just like you. and i bet you're not even 16 yet like i weren't but then i realised i'm only gonna be 14 or whatever once in my life, why exactly do i want a boyfriend? one thing you've gotta understand is if you can't be happy single and enjoy your life without the burdens of a relationship then what makes you think your life is just gonna turn around once you get a boyfriend. also, the best time to get into a relationship isn't when you feel like you're 'in need' of a boyfriend..trust me.
if you're lonely make friends, go out, LIVE. having a boyfriend really isn't like the shit you see in movies and read about so don't think it's gonna solve your problems.
i'm always here if you need someone to talk to as well. :) -
shanice because i love her and miss her. </3
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i just answered a question like this..look at my reply below to the previous question.
also, if you have any classes with him and he's good at a subject just be like 'oh, can you explain blah blah blah'
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well, first of all if he doesn't know you, then you gotta make yourself known especially since he's shy so it's even more unlikely that he'll make the first move.
if you're a confident person then you can just start by saying hi and developing a friendship but if you're not try doing things more subtly like finding out his hobbies or maybe some clubs he's in and be like 'oh, i heard you do this, i was wondering if you knew blah blah blah'..you get the gist.
but you need to remember that you can't get someone to like you; they either do or they don't. but just remember to be yourself and i know it sounds really cliche but most of the time, people can see through you if you're being fake and that doesn't leave a good impression of you. also, you're more confident when you're just being you. :) -
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wait, are you the person who typed this: okay so theres this girl.. oh btw im bi.. but yeah theirs this girlll.. and shes liked me for almost 2 yeras now.. but i would always be with a guy she hasnt told me shes lesbian till now.. and i told her liked herrr so muhc but we gott into fihgts.(cont)
if you are then you seem really confused. first of all, you said you wanted with the girl but you had a boyfriend. so, the smart thing to have done which you did was to break up with the guy after telling him you like someone else. so, you did that THEN you should've have told the girl and figured out what to do...but you didn't tell me if you did this or not. but i'm assuming you didn't since you got back with your boyfriend even though you wanted to be with the girl :s
so basically, i think you need to figure out for yourself what you want before making hasty decisions and confusing yourself and other people.
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haha well, it's kind of a good thing that someone wants to be you cos then that means you're something good but then again, like everything else it can cross the line.
so, if this person is in your life, just tell straight how you feel.
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ooh sounds cute but i wouldn't wear the jean jacket, try a leather one to give it that grunge look. :)
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well, that's not so bad. a lot of people have things they can't sleep without and yours is just a dummy. if you feel like you need to tell them then tell them, i'm sure they won't just stop being close to you because you sleep with a dummy. :)
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it seems he doesn't know what he wants. and if you know what you want, tell him so he knows and if he continues that way...you shouldn't wait around for him to grow up. love and hate are both strong words that shouldn't be used anyhow and he needs to know that.
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i cannot wait to move out!
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other people. like people who inspire me and who i think have made a stamp on society.
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of course, doesn't everyone?
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