My secret love has very recently drifted away and turned to the dark side (secret because he's my gay love but I'm bi with a gf) he is not the same as he used to be and everything about him has changed for the worse and I can't change him back. :( help?..
this is kinda confusing, but i dont think you should want to change someone. you wouldnt want someone trying to change you, so the other person would like you better. maybe just let him be for a little while and let him figure out whats going on with himself. if you guys talk, maybe he could tell you whats going on. even though you think he is changing the worse, it may just be because you liked the old him. if its really bad though, you should tell an adult. remember also, you have a girlfriend. dont focus on how much you want him to change because you should be focusing more on your girlfriend. this is a hard situation, but i hope i helped(: