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      ohhhhboy. I have a similar story to this... We have a little group of friends too and relationships were out of the question for each other. Well, me at least. I never had feelings with anyone in our little "group" for such a long time until I started liking my next door neighbor. We didn't want to date because we were all so close and didn't want to mess things up but I've been with him for almost 2 years now. We told each other are feelings and we are head over heels for each other. I think its worth it and maybe you should tell your brothers friend how you feel. Let your brothers friend know that you dont want to ruin anything between you two and see how they feel about you. It may seem like its going to end badly but its worth a try. It really is! If you feel like things will get awkward... just think "its only awkward if you make it awkward!" Thats what I always would say. Good luck! Do what YOU feel you should do.... weather its breaking group rules or not. Good luck! :)

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      Theres somebody for everybody and you will find someone out there for you. But no one will be able to love you until you learn to love yourself. Is there any other family you can live with? a friend? Theres no reason to harm yourself for the rude things that people choose to say or do to you. Dont let them, or ANYONE bring you down. Stand tall, keep your head high and have self confidence. All that really matters is how you feel about your self. Thats all you need. You need to feel content with yourself. Forget about the rude remarks from family and be proud of who you are. You are strong and putting up with it makes you even a stronger person. You will be loved but all thats really going to matter in the end is you... loving yourself. Stay strong<3 lots of love! Others look up to people who make it through the things that you do.

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      Im not sure if there is supposed to be more of this message because it cuts off. But anyways, I can understand why you're best friend would be upset. You hid it from her and it may make her feel uncomfortable or it may make her feel like you only went there to see her brother. I think the only thing there is to really do is to talk to her about it and apologize. If you do want to see her brother or go any further than that then tell her and really open up to her about the situation that you were in. Let her know that you knew what you did was wrong and you really did not want it to interfere with the friendship that you have with her. I hope everything works out for you!

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      Is there supposed to be more to this message? It cuts off. I think that you should surround yourself with people that have the same beliefs as you do. Everyone has there own opinion on religion though and odds are they are going to stick with it. Theres no need to try and get people to believe in something that they simply dont want to do.

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      You need to tell someone or stand up for yourself. Dont let someone control how you feel and what you do. You are a much better person than he is. Dont let him get into your head! Let someone know that he is hurting you, family, a teacher, anyone. Stay strong.

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      Start out with eating small portions through out the day. You do not need to force yourself to eat a lot, but do not starve yourself either. Eat through out the day until you start to feel comfortable eating more and more. Eating healthy will also help. Stay strong, and hang in there. Dont let yourself get addicted.

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      Actions speak louder than words. When you hurt a girl it truly does stick with her, and thats coming from a girl herself. But you need to PROVE to her that she means something to you and prove to her that you do have feelings for her. Sorry means nothing until you give it a reason. If her feelings are true to you, then Im sure you wont lose her. But really try and prove that you love and miss her.

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      Actions speak louder than words. When you hurt a girl it truly does stick with her, and thats coming from a girl herself. But you need to PROVE to her that she means something to you and prove to her that you do have feelings for her. Sorry means nothing until you give it a reason. If her feelings are true to you, then Im sure you wont lose her. But really try and prove that you love and miss her.

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      In my opinion, you're friend should be there for you through this. Try and figure out if somethings bothering you. Get out of the house more, go on walks and do positive things. Dont try and force happiness upon you but really try to get yourself in a better mood. Try and find something to keep you and your mind busy for a day.

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      I used to be the exact same way. Just confront your friend in a nice, simple way. Tell your friend that what they say is getting to you or something like "if you were my real friend you wouldn't say things like that to me" or next time your friend calls you a name just flat out say "stop calling me names" They should be pretty understanding considering that it hurts you. But if they dont care, then they aren't a real friend.

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      The best advice I can give you is to work on a long distance relationship. If you both are strongly in love then you can pull through until you are of age to leave and see each other. Running away will only give you more stress and it isn't worth it. Be who you are, and love who you choose... regardless of what any one tells you. They don't have to live with the decisions that you make so do what is best for YOU. Hang in there, and keep your head high. You guys can Skype each other, ooVoo, and instant message... there are a lot of ways you guys can keep in touch over the computer and even on the phone. Its going to be rough but if the love is true it will all be worth it in the end. Stay strong!

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      Well, it all depends on how you're attracted them. You can easily be attracted to either one by their physical appearance. Even if that isn't the case, you never know for sure until you go further into figuring it out yourself. If you have the same feeling towards the same sex as you do towards the opposite sex then odds are you MAY be. Experimenting can't hurt. Just don't make any hasty decisions!

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      Well. You need to accept your self first. You are who you are & you can't help who you fall for. Also, your parents need to understand that you are their child and they need to stick with you through all this. You do have the option of waiting till the age of 18 to come out though. You have more freedom that way and things might be slightly easier on you then.

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      It's okay, many people out there feel the same way you do. Everything happens for a reason and sometimes you're supposed to have people in your hearts but maybe you just shouldn't be with them. There's someone out there for everyone though and you just have to stick it out. Things will fall into place

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