Because then he wouldn't be my Secret lover, we would have to sort out the gas bill before arguing who did the ironing or misplaced the remotes instead of planning 3 nights in Paris followed by a night in London purely to indulge each other in pure hedonistic debauchery!

I will let you know when he launches 'Jedi boot camp' I'm sure take up will be good!

I'm exceptionally happy with my relationship (s) right now. My love and adventures with YSL are keeping me able to stay happy at home and take from my marriage the friendship and parenting without constantly feeling short changed on the deal.
Many wouldn't agree but I don't seek there approval, having YSL in my life is keeping my marriage going.

I think if you've ever been truly in love with someone your feelings in someway remain, they just change with the acceptance that the relationship is over. I've only been fully in love with 3 men, Hubby, HIM and YSL.

As for how I feel if they still had feelings for an old flame... I'd appreciate that they valued the relationship and hope that our love will have such longevity.

Got to be my neck or back

Emotional I think but I think I'm the wrong person to ask! I'm bad!!!

Internal qualities far outweigh how someone looks but there does need to be some physical attraction. I do struggle to find anyone shorter than me attractive, not that they aren't attractive it just makes me feel awkward and physically dominating. As for specifics that I look for, I think intelligence, sense of humour and adventure would be top of the list.

Naughty even by my standards!

I think for me they need to be 30+ and downside of 60 but I do try to be more open minded and decide against the outlook they have. YSL has never had a relationship with a woman younger than him before me. His preference has always been for a more mature female. Sp thank goodness for him having the same open mindedness as me.

Im a lucky girl because with YSL I get both but if I could have only one it would be girth.

Did I mention I luuuurrrrvvvveeee his cock?

it was like a white knuckle ride until I managed to relax. YSL helped with that by sticking his face in my cunt and licking me till I didn't care where I was, after that it was like I was floating. it was also a wonderful sense of bondage, whilst I wasn't tied in I certainly couldn't of gone anywhere without his assistance.

Tough question because I think everything has a price.

Last week we met an escort in a club. She was clearly a sex enthusiast and being a paid escort for her was getting money for her hobby and favorite past time. I think I would enjoy the thrill of being paid. that someone wants me enough to spend the money to make it happen.

So lets start the bids at £500 for the evening.

Listening and talking openly with each other. I think thats why me and YSL have such a solid relationship in relatively short space of time as we are constantly revisiting the important stuff and making sure we are both happy and understanding.

I think especially when swinging if you don't talk openly and honestly it will ruin any relationship. We make a point of discuss the good and the bad and always learn from each experience.

I used to masturbate most days if I had the time or privacy but in recent months Im more sexually satisfied that I have ever been and often don't do anything beyond a gentle stroke while remembering what we have done between seeing YSL.

I do love masturbating for YSL. Last week on our trip away he had to take a work call and I lay back on the bed naked and fingered myself with my cunt on full view of him and when he finished the call he came over and finished me.

Ahem...can my appreciative, respectful and true readers please reply .....

Ahem...can my appreciative, respectful and true readers please reply .....

Having my mind stimulated is probably no.1 then touch and scent, vision is low on my list by comparison. Kissing is a major turn on for me, i adore having my neck kissed and nibbled, also so many subtle but intimate things like YSL's hands just touching my tummy, my ankles caressed and held or tracing my curves.


my biggest turn offs are:

1) A lack of manners be it at the table, at a door, in the bedroom.

2) smelly body odour or bad breath

3) Being selfish or pushy in the bedroom

4) Bad kissing

5) Apologies or asking for feedback as a way to fish for a compliment

"did I lick you ok baby?" Er no! Did I beg you to stop yet???

"sorry if my cock hurts it's big" Er no! Are you in yet??

It just sets me on sarcastic mode!!! And you don't want to be on the wrong side of that!


What turned you on the most this week?

Yes, but Im talking about them both knowing about it in a group/swinging scenario but I suspect you are refering to fucking them totally seperately without their knowledge? if so then no. Im not into one off quickies, I get little or no sexually gratification from that. I like prolonged sessions of passion and excitement that both/all parties enjoy.

Regardless of venue I have the same number of holes that need attention.

I prefer playing 2 or 4 ball and dont mind a bit of rough.

I will keep it brief because I don’t want to bore you with the details. The past few weeks I’ve had my Alcoholic Mum living with us and to say its added stress is an understatement. Last night I chucked her out thought after shocking behaviour. Whilst it has resolved one aspect of the stress it opens up and whole load more from worrying about her and trying to get her moved into her new house. Previouslto her moving in this has been problematic and stressful, it’s essentially pulled the entire family apart and she still doesn’t see how she has caused any of it. If you do want to read more of the tough side of things http://marriednoparole.blogspot.com is my other blog.
Sex as a stress reliever? Yes. I find sex extremely therapeutic at times like these but masturbation doesn’t help as I often fail to climax and only add to my frustration. Tonight I know sex will be everything I need it to be, no plan or specific type of sex. My mind wanders from wanting such a hard spanking to almost justify tears, being tied up and used through to just gently love making, being held and having my brow kissed, i just know for certain that I need to be in YSL’s arms.