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A relationship cannot be built on mistrust, lies, and paranoia. It's just unhealthy. If you still want to make things work, talk to him about it. If you find that you've had enough of everything, then just end things before it turns into something nasty xx
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Why not just slip "you're cute" in casually when he does something that you find particularly adorable? :) xx
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Babe, the main point is that he likes someone else now. At least for now, don't add yourself to the equation and risk getting hurt xx
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I generally don't have good impressions of people who throw around "i love you" so casually because eventually, they lose its meaning. But that's just me. If he is blatantly flirting with you, bring it to the next level and ask him out. Get to know him better and maybe you'll know the answer without even having to ask :) xx
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Speed is a great sacrifice for the quality of work in most cases. It doesn't matter how long you take to finish your work, just as long as you do it in time. So don't give yourself unnecessary stress by worrying about it. As for a part-time job, it will work out just as long as you plan your time well. For the last two years of my diploma studies, I was juggling full-time classes, two day jobs and a night job. It is possible, but always put your studies and health first :) xx
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When you have no commitments or emotional obligations to someone, it's easy to just drift apart. And exams is a good reason to do that. It doesn't necessarily mean he's completely lost interest or that he will never be interested again. Try contacting him again, and not let it die down like before. Gauge from his responses if he is still interested, and go on from there :) xx
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You have to have a twitter account. If you don't have one, where will the image show then?
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When people try so hard to bring you down, cowering will only prove them right. Don't just accept their judgements, don't just wait for their predictions to ring true. Fight even harder to make this relationship work and to show them how ignorant they are.
Just to reassure you, most of my past relationships were with people who don't share my religion. We argue about it, we share our opinions, but it has never been a problem for us. It can be the same for you just as long as you remain understanding and open-minded :) xx -
I understand how you feel, but it is not perfect, dear. It's not perfect if he can't feel completely comfortable as your boyfriend. It's not perfect if he puts the friendship over the relationship. It's better if you understand that and let it go, instead of holding on to possibilities. Maybe then, things will be as they were again xx
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There isn't a university that is good for everything (e.g. environment, course structure, opportunities, ranking). Given that it is your future and your degree, maybe it's best if you do the research yourself.
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Ever since I had to live alone!
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You're right, if you continue knowing that you will be uninterested one day, it will be a waste of time. It's never too early to let go xx
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Your mum is not completely wrong, but it's not good enough a reason to give up a relationship that is going on so strongly. Be understanding and let her know that you understand where she is coming from. Reassure her that until you are mature enough, you won't make any life-changing decisions but at the same time, you want to go with the flow and see how things turn out with this boy :) xx
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You need to ask yourself questions that reflect all possibilities. Yes, what if he feels the same and you let the chance slip? But at the same time, what if he doesn't feel the same and all you're left is an awkward friendship with someone who is far away? Can your friendship survive such a test? I am not leading you to any answer because I can't decide for you; you need to make your own choice and it should be something you can live with <3 xx
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Key: USED TO. Make your decision on who he is NOW, because everyone has an ugly past and everyone can change. I'm not saying he is a completely different person now, because I don't know him. I'm saying, don't give up just yet :) xx
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