Don't be siao, you are fine. You just have to look for the right girl, and not just every girl that comes into your life xx

I can't tell you who you are, because you have to figure it out on your own. But just remember that you are only 16. It shouldn't mean that you must have a bf just because your friends do. And what you feel for your girl friend, it's called friendship, it's called loyalty, not necessarily because you have romantic feelings for her. But until you figure it out, just know that it doesn't matter what kind of people you like just as long as you are ready to accept how things turn out xx




(P.s. Formspring will be shutting down at the end of March 2013, so send in any questions you have before then and I will try to get to as many of them!)

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I just created an account on ask.fm, so you can direct all your questions there! It's just like formspring :)

http://ask.fm/hawtvintage

Otherwise, there's tumblr if you have an account. Most of my questions come from there anyway. The only annoying thing is that you probably have to search for my replies on my blog because they'll be jumbled up with my usual picture posts :/

http://www.hawtvintage.tumblr.com/ask

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Increase your interactions with her online so that she notices you and ask her out when you are ready. Don't bother too much with mind games and hints because it only confuses everybody and you start second-guessing her feelings for you xx





(P.s. Formspring will be shutting down at the end of March 2013, so send in any questions you have before then and I will try to get to as many of them!)

Do you see a pattern? Because I do.

Every time you drink/smoke, something happens in your life that brings about the worst reactions. It's about time you look into the mirror and decide if you like what you see and who you've turned into. If you don't like it, then you ought to do something about it; change and be better. You turn to alcohol when you are upset but how has that improved your life at all? Because of who you are when you drink, you've pushed away your family, and you risk pushing away your friends now.

If you're legally too young to drink, then you are also too young to have problems like this. So put aside these bad habits, not for your family, not for your mom, but for yourself. Do it because you want to be a better person and have a life that will mean something more than parties and getting high xx





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It's almost always like this when you enter a new environment. I'm sure you have felt like this before and it will only get better from now. Be more socially active within your college, keep your priorities in mind (studies and health come first), and befriend people that you think you can connect with. It'll help if you have someone you can confide in, someone who is in the same position as you so that you don't feel like you're alone :) xx





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I can tell you a million times to stop pining for someone who doesn't feel the same about you, but ultimately, you need to want to help yourself. Look at what this has done to you right from the start; do you like how you have become? Obsessing over one person, what he's thinking, what he's doing...is that something you are okay with? xx






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Just remember to protect yourself before anyone else :) xx





(P.s. Formspring will be shutting down at the end of March 2013, so send in any questions you have before then and I will try to get to as many of them!)

I think whenever you choose a module in uni, it should either be because you are good at it and want to get easy grades, or because you are passionate and want to learn more about it. If you find yourself in neither of these two categories, then go ahead and change your subject. But also keep in mind that you will be starting later than everybody else at the new module and you probably wouldn't have another chance to change modules again. So if that's what you choose to do, make sure you pick a subject that you are confident about.

It's good to have healthy competition in a cohort, but know your boundaries and don't start comparing every aspect of your work with everyone you know. It won't do you any good because there will always be someone better in every field you choose to major in. It's just the way it is and not a reflection of your own ability :) xx




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I didn't receive your second part so I'm a little confused but I think I get the gist of it. If he is clearly avoiding you, then I think there's a big chance that he doesn't feel the same way about you. You can't really control how he responds from now on, but just be normal around him. Act like how a friend would and maybe when he feels that it's less awkward, he will behave comfortably again :) xx



(P.s. Formspring will be shutting down at the end of March 2013, so send in any questions you have before then and I will try to get to as many of them!)

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Watched an episode but hated it!! x

There comes a point where I need to draw a line. Posting up our pictures is the line.