ahh i'm really sorry first of all that my ask box on tumblr is being such a jerk :( it's quite horrible like that. i seriously feel like i never get anything anyone says me. but as for your question... i can't say for sure if he likes you or not. your friend might not know, she might not really know what's going on, but then again she might really be clued in as well, you don't really know. has she been right about this sort of stuff before? there's a possibility that she is right if she has, but even then there's no guarantee you know? i think the biggest thing for you to do is just... talk to him when you see him. if you keep going to the starbucks, it might seem a little strange, unless you're extremely addicted to coffee then it won't seem strange at all. if it's out of your way though and he knows that, i think it's best not to keep showing up? try to find something that you both have in common possibly and talk about that, then maybe you can move naturally into asking for his number or something! or if you know his last name maybe add him on facebook. ultimately i can't tell you if you should give up or not. because even if he is a flirt, which it's possible he is, that doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't genuinely like you? it doesn't mean he does like you though, there's no real way to tell besides possibly asking him straight out "do you want to put your tongue in my mouth" but i don't think that'd go over so well LMAO so yeah my advice would just be feel it out, when you see him or add him on facebook and maybe try talking to him about some of your shared interests? try to play it cool and tell yourself that no matter what happens, it doesn't matter. at least you tried right? if he is just a flirt, it won't feel nice but it won't be the end of the world!

slkjfd thank you so much cutie :(

hmmmmm i'd say i'd give it some time, just sort of let it relax and don't try again for now because it might just seem like you're doing too much you know? i mean it's possible he wouldn't see it that way but it might be better if you let it breathe, give him some space. then the next time you approach him with anything, have it be serious, but light? like if he likes something that you like, mention that you think that's cool, and don't make a big deal about it. keep it short and sweet and don't spend too much time on it you know? if you introduce yourself into his life in a slow manner like that, just keeping it light and stuff i think it will probably go better! otherwise just be patient! he's probably not going to disappear so don't feel like you have a time limit or you should be rushing. it's better to be as calm as possible with these things, because you'll come off better, you'll make a better impression and it will be a much better situation overall!

bias aside, i have to be honest and say i liked key's the best, at least the first two? i did like the third one, but the ones with the green hair were the most striking and the most artistic i think. i really liked jonghyun's as well, but i wasn't too pleased with how out of focus the cutest one was. i like all of minho's a lot, and i like the first two of onew's as well, but the blanket one was kind of boring in my opinion. the ones i liked least would definitely be taemin's, simply in comparison to the others. i didn't hate them, but i only really liked two of them and overall i found the colors/aesthetic less pleasing than the rest of them. but overall i really did love the teasers!

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I ADORE IT TO PIECES. ugh i think it's so forward, it's so interesting, it's so different to what i've been seeing lately and what i've been seeing in kpop in general and it's just so them. it's reminiscent of juliette which i LOVED but it's very different as well and very updated and modern and so dreamy and pretty and artistic from what i've seen. i'm so excited to see the mv and hear the music, i'm sure it's going to be amazing

nope! i was writing today. i wrote 2470 words, i'm just working slowly on this one fic that i must finish!

well basically i don't understand why people ship people together and DON'T want them together or hope they are together and stuff? i definitely would like them to be together and i definitely think that there is a spark there. i can't say i know that there is, but i do believe there is something special there. whether it is just a very very strong friendship, a past relationship, a present relationship or a future relationship, it could be any of these things but i think there are feelings there. and yes to a certain extent i definitely believe that something has or something will happen between them. but beliefs are not facts, so i cannot say "they are together" and i would never say that. it's what i see, it's what i hope and believe, HOWEVER no matter the level of their relationship, as long as they are close and they are happy, that'll make me happy. relationship side removed, they have been friends for so long and they are clearly SO close, it would suck so much to see them not be as close or have a falling out, you know? i think they have a very strong bond though, regardless of it's actual perimeters and that is what i love about them.

wow well first of all let me say that your coworkers are a bunch of dicks. i think that's ridiculous, and i hope that you told them all off. i don't think his record has anything to do with this, but if there is any way to contact him at all... i think it might be a good idea to let him know it wasn't you? at the same time maybe leaving it would be okay, but if he comes into work and is expecting anything, that won't be good and would be a bad situation for you to be in. so in that case i would say that it might be good to either call him or leave him a note or something saying, that that wasn't you and it was a bad joke from your coworkers and you're sorry about it all. that would be my instinct :( although it will be a lot easier to just leave it.. at the same time you don't want to get into that situation where he thinks that you feel a certain way when he comes into work. i dunno :(

i'm not trying to discourage or hurt your feelings or anything like that, but i just feel as though... without being close, without really knowing me, i don't know that you can love me as much as you think you do. you might, and that would be a beautiful thing, but i don't want you to feel as though... i am the only one? because i'm not. and there are other people out there who are just as good if not better for you, i'm sure. if that's what you want though, if i am what you want, i'm not trying to stop you from trying. because by all means... you may. it's just that... i don't want to disappoint you, and i don't want you to feel any pain on account of me :( i know i can't stop that from happening but i don't know... i just want you to be realistic, because i am not the only fish in the sea. if that makes sense? this is very very very sweet of you though :( you have no idea.

LMAO aww :( no problem darling! i'm happy to help people. i can definitely be sarcastic but it has a time and a place and you can be funny without being a dick to people for sure. so i'm glad you appreciate it cutie. i'll always love to help people out :)

we met on tumblr! she followed me and i felt compelled to check her out and quickly followed her back and then our lives were never the same again

from what i can see it looks fucking awesome! especially with his skin tone, i really like bright colors on him. because there is something so strong and solid, but also understated about his features that bright colors or drastic shades like the white before look amazing on him. i approve wholeheartedly!

by being even and mature, by being calm and patient, by spending time and by letting me know that you are there, by being attentive and paying attention, by humoring me and laughing at my stupid jokes, by going along with and being interested in my random fancies, by understanding that i am human, that i shift, that things change that my mood won't always be the same. i'm mostly unendingly patient, but i have no patience for lack of love or any sort of hatred or abrasiveness to the world. you win my heart for being the better percentage, for not caring that things might be bad and horrible, by standing up to those things with a smile. you win my heart not by liking all of the things i like or disliking all of the things i like, but liking what you like and standing up strong around it. showing the world the things you like and the things you make, though you may be nervous about it. by being yourself, completely. but ultimately, there is no formula. these things just sort of happen. and it's not about "winning" because i don't really like what that suggests or implies, like i'm some sort of judge presiding over the world LMAO it's just about being there and being you and letting me be the flirtatious, ridiculous, intense, overly affectionate person i am.

ahhh that's quite a bit different :( i'm sorry the rest didn't come through! but if you're feeling ballsy then i would go for it! however if your instinct tells you not to, then don't. but do definitely try and strike up another convo if you can! since you have so little time i think that'll be good ;~; and hopefully maybe things will keep on going. you never know! good luck honey

well i don't think i've gotten all of this but i'd say next time he smiles at you just start with a simple hi! or maybe a wave? something to make it a little more than just smiles and eye contact. from there, it kind of opens the doors a little more. he may talk to you and if he doesn't, you can always strike up conversation about something little. it's just like talking to anybody else. you can't think of it as talking to a ~boy~ you have to think about it as talking to a friend, a person, a human being with as many worries and insecurities as you. so talk to him about anything! if he wears a shirt that you like, comment on it. if he's holding a book you've said, comment on that. just one thing, something little. if it doesn't end up going anywhere, give it a rest and then try again some other times. but if he's giving you smiles and he's making eye contact it's quite possible that he will start/continue a conversation with you!

LMAOO aww no you're not awkward! it's not weird at all <3 i don't mind answering them at all :) it's fun for me!

i don't really want them to be anything? like i don't think that they should be gay or that they should be straight. i think that whatever they are, that that is great. i love them all the same, no matter their orientation as everyone should. i do feel that... there is something there? whether it just be close friendship or sexual attraction or a mixture of both, or just an intense connection, i do think that there is something there. which is why i ship them. and why i think most people ship a particular relationship LMAO why would you ship something that you didn't think was legitimate on some level, or you didn't feel there was something special there? i don't ship people for their attractiveness or because they are my favorite in a band, i ship something if i see a connection, if i see something... else, something extra in their interactions. so a small part of me does think they are, or ships them because i think there is that possibility. but i can't say if they are or if they aren't, because i have no idea. there is no way i could know!

i can't say that i won't ever change fandoms because... well i can't tell you that for sure? but in the foreseeable future, no i will not be changing fandoms! i love shinee fandom, i love shinee and i only feel connected to them in terms of writing fanfiction. i'm not one to easily change things like that, it takes a lot and a big shift. so no i don't see that happening in the foreseeable future!

i just posted not that long ago! but yes seeing as i'm fairly free from school by now, i will be hopefully updating more, especially over the holiday season! but we will see, because i am pretty damn busy LMAO :( i should have a lot more up, i just need to find the time to actually spend on writing.