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Princess Kali and I answered this somewhat on Episode 34 of Freedom of Fetish, but I wanted to expand. Read my blog post for my answer: http://freedomoffetish.com/blog_post/crossdressing-like-a-hot-rich-girl-and-toying-with-boys/
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I like bits. Human horsies turn me on :) I like the aesthetic of it more than a ball gag.
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Here's a little rhyme: my go-to? Taboo, taboo, taboo. If you're not supposed to do it, it's hot...with the exception of scat/vomit play. I love role-playing taboo situations, particularly when power exchange is involved.
I'm aching to really pound a guy with a strap-on. In my experience, females are far better at manning up than men are in that department, but I'm looking to be proven wrong. I was also surprised at first by how much I enjoy foot play, but now it's a regular part of my sex life. -
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Ask me some questions and I'll do that. I won't do a podcast on a topic without having specific questions about that topic.
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Also a very good question. The short of it is this: you can't be discriminated against based on just any characteristic. It must be something that's protected (or quasi-protected, which is a lesser category under the law). Protected categories include ethnicity, race, and religion. Quasi-protected categories include gender and, most recently in certain states, sexual orientation. Surprisingly, age classifications don't receive any protection. As you can see, the bar for protected classes is very, very high, and no court has ever held that discrimination on the basis of kink orientation is unlawful. Maybe it will be far, far in the future, but given that we're still bickering over something as fundamental as equal rights based on *sexual orientation,* it'd be a massive leap to cover something as misunderstood and vilified as kink.
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I have absolutely no idea what this is, and all my Googling led me to hokey-looking websites that appear to be made in 1996 with Geocities.
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I think that's how it is with every vanilla/kink dichotomy: the mainstream world views edgy things with fear, and the BDSM world views them with acceptance. Maybe not perfect or full acceptance in every case, but the overall level of tolerance is much higher. Moreover, the pain play present in a great deal of BDSM makes genital piercings a natural accessory. And marking a submissive or a slave with jewelry, tattoos, or other symbols, especially in an intimate place, can be a meaningful illustration of D/s ownership.
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Absolutely. Great question. A lot of it comes down to age of consent and obscenity. Definitely a perfect topic for a future show.
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I haven't, but I am intrigued. Tell me more.
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Nope.
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I'd go back and invest in Google. Fuck yeah.
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I'm glad you have a "theory" on homosexuality. However, theories are falsifiable with evidence. The better question is whether you have any of that.
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Aww, I don't think they do. I love a man in latex.
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Not at all. Overall chemistry and attraction is far more important. There's a point at which a dick would be *too* small for me, but average is just fine. Just have some washboard abs and a closet full of costumes, and I'll be swooning.
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Oh man...I'd want to have a costume that was a dead-on replica of a movie villainess I love, like maybe a hot version of Ursula from The Little Mermaid. That or a sick 3-piece latex suit, black with white pinstripes, really well-tailored and low-cut.
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All of the above! Well, I think I'd have to say chemistry, but chemistry encompasses all of those things: wit, personality, kink compatibility, looks, interests, hobbies, experience, etc. All of those amount to that spark, if it exists.
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Wet Platinum.
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Nothing's taboo to think about, my dear. Your mind is the only place where no one else has a right to be, so go wild. Fantasy alone never heart anyone. I've spoken with some individuals on FetLife who've had experiences with bestiality, but I don't know anyone in real life who has. I've also never seen it happen in real life. It can certainly be dangerous--Mr. Hands, anyone?--and there are serious ethical issues involved. Can an animal really give consent to sexual activity with a human? Does an erection mean consent? Plus, you have to be really careful with WHATEVER you're doing at the back end of a horse, lest you get kicked in the face ;)
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