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Filth can always be guided.
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I hope we do see the return of the bush. I love pubic hair.
I understand that removing pubic hair makes things easier, and some people like the aesthetic. But, to me, pubic hair is so sexual. It's emblematic of sex. It retains the body's scent which, to me, is extremely erotic. Bald pussies have always looked sterile to me, de-sexed. I associate bare pussies with marble statues and anatomically neutered Barbie dolls.
One of my favorite photos is Richard Avedon's portrait of Cat Power. Her jeans are slung low, partially unbuttoned, and there's just a peek of her pubic hair. That, to me, is supremely sexy.
From the photos I see come in to FGT, of nudes and partial nudes, I'm noticing a mix. Some are stripped bare, but I feel like I'm seeing more and more pubic hair. One photographer shot a model with an enormous bush, and I loved that. It was refreshing and exciting and seriously hot. So maybe we're due for a backlash. If it comes, I certainly welcome it.
- debauchette -
Most cock rings are designed to be worn around the base of the cock and balls, though some vibrating cock rings work nicely around just the shaft.
If it's made of a stretchable material, you stretch it out with your fingers, like a rubber band, slide it over your cock and balls, and then slowly remove your fingers to allow the band to constrict. Some rings are made of leather with a snap closure. Cocks rings made of solid material (an O-ring of metal, jade, etc.) just slide over your cock and balls and fit snugly at the base. If it's made of rubber or metal, you might need to use lubricant to make it easier to put on, and it's generally best to put it on when you're semi-erect. Don't wait until you're fully erect.
It's best if you don't leave it on for too long (say, 20 min. or so). If it feels strange or uncomfortable, if you feel tingling, take it off to get the circulation back to where it should be. To remove it, you just need to soften your erection (think of a good libido-crusher, like politics, or, if you're perpetually aroused, try using ice).
Have fun!
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I'm tempted to say something about pussy party tricks, which are a noble pursuit for any woman. Apart from that, I'd love to play on the trapeze.
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Kudos to you for being open. I've had amazing and memorable threesome, foursome and moresome experiences.
I suppose the cardinal rule is to choose a non-friend. I have seen that rule broken a number of times, but only by people who are all very open, have excellent communication skills and are well-versed in the politics of these sorts of things. If it's a new venture for you both, a neutral stranger or semi-stranger is probably ideal.
Usually then, it's a matter of finding said semi-stranger. I've typically found like-minded people at like-minded people events - like sex parties, workshops - but occasionally people luck out with online ads. Or in the supermarket.
Know your boundaries beforehand and talk about what you are both comfortable with. The experience ought to bring you closer, not create more distance, so you want to do whatever it takes to stay connected during it. Talk about it after and debrief (if you need to). These experiences can be amazing to deepen a relationship and I think the key to that is communicating whatever comes up for you along the way.
- Kasia
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