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Because the original question was posed at my friend Franklin's page here: http://www.formspring.me/tacit/q/864681605
You can check out his answers to the previous three (and many other questions) at this link: http://www.formspring.me/tacit -
Well, you *could* try hanging out with the local BDSM community, and see if there is a dominant female with any time spare who is interested in making this happen for you. On the other hand, as someone who hangs out in the BDSM community pretty regularly, I'd say your chances of finding a dominant woman who likes to kidnap people and doesn't already have her dance card full to brimming over, not to mention one who is interested in both of you and cares to make YOUR specific fantasies come true... well, they're pretty low. From my experience, and considering the gender balance in most scenes, I'd actually be rather wary of a female dominant who didn't have a long waiting list of people desperate to impress her, and as newbies on the scene you'll have to put a lot of work in. If you're only interested in this scenario as a one-off might not be worth it, either for you or her.
On the other hand, it might be a lot simpler to engage the services of a pro-domme who will negotiate with you and put together a kidnap scenario for a fee.
Talk to your local community, see if you can find someone with good references and a positive yet responsible attitude. Be very wary of anyone who doesn't talk safe-words and double-check consent of everyone involved beforehand. Also worth noting is that many/most pro-dommes will not consider sex acts with clients, but may well be open to ordering you to play with each other, if that's a part of your fantasy. -
I have to say, I think 2009 has been the best year of my life so far, but the curve looks like it's still going upwards right now. Roll on 2010, love, life, and the House of Joy!
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Maxine’s Bio
A life based on logic and love. Likely topics: art, geek, polyamory, science, sex, philosophy & very bad puns.
Maxine Green. Artist and illustrator by trade, polyamorous (and many other things) by nature, and an activist by accident.
