just to clarify the joshua lim i am close to IS NOT. he is very much single and a great catch haha. its the pictureless dubious one who randomly adds guys on Facebook that probably is.

yep i will, haha thank you

no it isn't creepy, its very heartening. pretty hard for affirmation to be a bad thing right. thank you for believing in me :)

leonyuc is very much taken, believe me if you did stand a chance you wouldn't be wasting your time though ^^

its very subjective but generally for me infatuation dies off within the first 1-2 months or so? love is when you take it for longer than half a year i guess. but there are many many other things to consider though

hahaha is this yang zi - can't envision anyone else in stanford who would post this

haha kinda i guess. yes i hope all goes well too. i think i picked up the latter along the way, but for me its never as easy as achieving that immediately - its more a continued journey of getting there slowly

haha i'm not exactly back yet :) why thank you, more people should be as nice as you

econz :) i'm not back yet man i'm in san fran haha

Yes it's a lovely place :) lucky how?

I'm 20 right now but I'll be 21 in June! :)

like i don't want to impose my value judgement on anyone but there is a threshold in my book where it comes to promiscuity. past a certain point it inevitably warrants a lack of respect from me because i feel like you can be as slutty as you want but i don't have to be okay with it. even though i have supreme admiration for the vivaciousness he seems to possess for life despite the odds he is faced with but it baffles me how he can continue down that path even if the appropriate *precautions* are being taken.

i also feel like to a certain extent he flaunts his condition. its kinda reductive? and it reminds me of the crude homoerotic abercrombie and fitch advertisements you see along orchard. everyone thinks its progressive because it hints at a broader sense of acceptance and it indicates society is okay with how it pushes the envelope of homosexuality in social media but i beg to differ. all it does is perpetuate existing stereotypes of dysfunction within the homosexual community. it is one thing to be accepting and tolerant of such lifestyles but to celebrate them in an overt and aggressive manner is extremely crass to me.

hahahahahaha wow, thats a pretty grand gesture

i was only in hp in high school not in college, i got aaada

handsome i guess? hahaha. i'm not sure most are private.

haha not that i was aware of, no. its based on a book by jonathan safran foer about how this eccentric little boy deals with the death of his father after 911, and how he goes about searching for answers in the mundane. i think its strongest suit was how well it pushed the idea of family love - it just made me miss my parents very much i guess

no i dont. i used to think that but past a certain point i began having my reservations i guess - if i'm not wrong i think i might have unfollowed him on twitter?

dude, ORD lo

yes i should! and i really want to :)

i have mostly been in oxford, been going to london a few times, visiting sheffield and leeds to check out the med schools there, went to berlin, going to paris for two days next week, going to san fran on the 26th, might potentially go to other parts of the states if i can