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      Hi lovely, sorry this is so late, I've been really busy. But anyhow, I'd explain why I talked to my ex and explain that it was a simple hello. Trust is not easy to earn back once it's been broken so the best thing would be to just wait it out and hopefully things take a turn for the better. If you feel like the relationship isn't really working then it may be good to just take a short break for awhile and re-evaluate things on both your parts. I'm sorry you've been trying really hard but it seems futile. Give it a little time, give him a little space and see how things go. Again, I'm so so sorry that this is late. I hope it makes you feel better though. Hang in that sweets x

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      Hi there! I'd suggest reading and reading more. Try experimenting with writing, it doesn't have to be perfect but just keep trying. Ask people to read your work, ask them what they like or don't about it. I don't know if this will help though, just giving some suggestions x

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      Hi lovely, I remember reading this one morning when I wasn't feeling too great and your formspring made me smile so thank you for that :') I apologize for taking so long because I've been really caught up with life. But here is what I have to say with regards to what you've sent me.. To be honest, I think it's really difficult for things to work out when two people have differing core values. It's difficult because either party or both will be compromising on what they truly believe in and I don't think anybody can compromise on a core value forever. Unless it's changed, but even then, I cannot see myself changing/compromising on my core values. I don't know. With regards to family, I think that's less important because the relationship is between you two. But I'd say you really have to decide whether you can compromise/change your values for your boy or can he do the same for you. If you can't, it doesn't mean that you do not love him and if he can't it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. It just means that you value what you believe in and respect yourself as well. I don't know if this helps but I hope it does.. You have to sort it out within yourself okay? And I wish you the best in sorting that out. Do write me if you have anything else. Again, I apologize for the extremely late reply. Thank you for your lovely comments though :') <3

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      Hey there :) I don't particularly think they're supportive but rather they don't overtly disapprove? x

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      If she were a close friend I'd talk it out with her because that's what close friends do. I don't really think has to come down to taking sides though so I wouldn't really bother with her having more 'power'. If she really is unreasonable, others would see it too. And if your mutual friends are gonna side her blindly then I don't think these are friends really worth keeping.. Just my pov though x

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      Hey lovely, I don't think so..I'm mostly frank with my feelings if I can help it because you only regret the chances you don't take. I think admitting those feelings would help get you through them to be honest, to get a sense of closure. That, and a little time should help you through. I hope this helps x

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      I went to CJC and did Math, Economics and Literature then to NUS to do Psychology, then I did my Masters in Scotland in Child Psychology. Don't be afraid or feel set back by time. My advice is to find something you really love doing, and work really hard at it and it'll pay off. Good luck :) x

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