OMG, thank you beautiful, talented and anonymous person asking me this question!!

I think being fearce/fierce is about having something to say. I communicate a specific message to people. Some people love it, and some people hate it, but I command respect because I'm not a phony. It also has to do with the people I surround myself with, who are all pretty fierce.

PS: Braying about how cool you are to your Facebook friends is desperate and NOT fierce, btw.