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      Those moments when I forget that they have to go home. When there is only the "now" and it is great.

      When the twinkle comes back into their eyes.

      When you see that first real smile and hear the first real laugh

      When you see them overcome something they have been battling for so long

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      I need a weekend away with my husband. I sure seem to miss him a lot. It seems like lately we are always going and we don't get to enjoy each other as much as we used to

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      This summer I enjoyed being outside and going swimming I have decided that my husband thinks I am beautiful so who cares what I look like in a swimming suit.

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      I honestly don't have a "feeling" I feel for every birth mom there is the perfect parent(s)

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      This shouldn't be a hard question to answer but it has been. I love during the summers being outside all the time day or night, I love that we lived in a small town so our parents didn't have to watch us every second of everyday.

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      I really don't know the answer to this. I am going to go with blind side. That movie means soooo much to me.

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      I have oddly been thinking about this alot.. I think I would like to live in the Basin...but I would need for my husband to have a good job there so i could still be a stay at home mommy and i would like to be able to build our home so that it fit us and our needs.

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      Because sheep have magical special powers....So once the hair is cut away from the sheep all the magical powers are gone :(

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      Dalmations are hyper crazy dogs.. even more so then my brats.. and Blaine is the reason we have black and white.. I guess dogs have to match.. clothes on the other hand, not so much

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      Because I have such an awesome family and great friends that get who I am and help be become everything I want to be.

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      I do feel some people do hold foster, adoptive, and families who suffer from infertility to a higher standard. Just because we wanted babies for so long and with every bit of us doesn't mean we have an easier go at the whole parent thing. I find people always think we have no clue as to what we are getting into, if we didn't know what we were getting into we wouldn't have spent endless nights crying from empty arms. we would not have had people come into our homes, lives, and families to judge if we are "good enough" to be parents. We wouldn't spend countless hours balancing preparing for a baby/child and trying not to torture our self by having kid things in the house. We wouldn't hide the tears with a smile every time we hold some one's baby or someone announces a pregnancy. We are parents too.. we are new and what we are doing and even though we adopted or are fostering kids they still did not come with an owner manual. I ofter feel like I am a blind person trying to separate clothes into groups by colour. I have no clue what I am doing a lot of the time and feel that because I wanted kids so badly I can't ask for help. I love my kids sooo much.. and that makes it even harder because sooner or later I have to say goodbye.

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      We then went out on the best date I have ever been on in my entire life. About a month later we went to a military ball together and then parted ways for a few years, he was in Cali on his way to Iraq and I was in Utah. We started dating again Oct 2007 and were married by February. He is my rock he is the best husband and dad and i would be more of a (see bellow) then i currently am if not for him.

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      If only.. that would be great fun. I do have my computer on most of the day I however am not always in front of it..now if i was on it.. it would likely be broke as i am well not a small person. If you feel I could do the "mom" thing better I would love for you to come to my home and give me some pointers as i am still learning and requesting knowledge from everyone. Their nap is usually my me time as well, if that makes me selfish then I am okay with it.

Heather

American Fork, Utah

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I am married to a hairy monster...and i love him most days. I am a foster mom because we don't have the ingredients to be a real mom.

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