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what the hell does this mean?
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holy shit bro... um this is almost as bad as meeting a woman and not telling her you got kids. its one thing to not want random ppl to meet your kids but a whole nother to hide a substantial part of your life from a person you are totally into.
im sure you know where im headed with this. there will never be a correct time to bring this up and hte longer you wait the worse you look. so what you waitin for? -
just be up front. if your feelings have changed and he doesnt feel the same you are either gonna be hurt by seeing him with other women or be hurt by his response when you address it. the latter will probbaly not only sting less but be a little less self deprecating in the end.
and who knows he may feel the same about you. just broach the topic lightly and do NOT do it before or after sex. we dont really have all the blood we need to make proper decisions in our head's at those times. nah but seriously, address it away from the bedroom -
yeah i never saw the movie but i just watched the trailer. looks like a story about a slightly mushy hopeless romantic dude chasing a chick who dont want no man for real. or dont want him for some reason
those kinda things can end several ways but the common thread is that you are gonna have to work either way. work to have her or work to forget her. if it was me? id go use my tale of heartbreak and rejection to get alot of sweet sympathy sex.
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imma go out on a limb here an assume that its a pretty good relationship and yall enjoy each other. there's definitely sex involved (right? maybe... for fun im assuming yes) and you are feeling like you dont wanna get burned by him having open options.
this is all well and most relationships require some sort of boundaries at some point. people need definitions and even if you don't define your relationship, saying nothing says alot.
at the end of a day its a conversation that probably needs to happen cus you sound like hte kinda person who needs boundaries wether it puts the guy under pressure or not nad im sure by now he knows who you are. but more importantly if he doesn't he should find out.
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hate to say it but its one of those things you just have to let fade with time. there will always be that song or place that reminds you of them. just that with the passing of time the importance they held to those things/events wither.
just absorb yourself in what you love unconditionally. stuff that gives you unending satisfaction and isn't dependent upon anything but your focus. take on new projects, try new areas in your field, distract yourself so that the time flies.
clubbing is cool until you end up hungover in a random persons house tryna sneak out. or even worse with them in YOUR house... we've all been there and its not really fun -
im not about to sit here and say lose the chastity belt in order to sew some wild oats BUT i will say this. that environment you are in only happens once (unless you become a musician, then it never ends LOL) and if you are questioning your standards maybe they are built on too lofty aspirations. in the long run you should only do what you are comfortable with and dont let the world around you make you become something you are not. so with all that said..
give that geeky dude who helps you with your bio labs some ass. -
this is a hard hard question to answer...
you do know that telling a woman she is fat is on the level of slapping your mom right? i mean its no real way to say it and if its out of your character to say shit like that i wouldnt recommend it at all
the thing is are you a health nut? like are your abs and health so in order that you can go and tell a woman who is towing a few extra pounds to lose weight? i mean its one thing if shes self aware and wants to lose but needs encouragement but its a whole nother thing to just tell a happy person they shouldnt be happy
some people have a natural disposition to be slightly larger and an unhealthy body image could make them think that they are wrong. i mean if you are a few burgers away from needin the jaws of life to saw the wall down by all means. or if she needs support and encouragement to help her stay on task do that too. chances are she knows she is gaining tho and thats not a one shot convo, its one of those things you will have to ease into and gauge her mood prior to mentioning. there is no right or wrong way for this convo, only a tactful one and that depends on the woman's personality and the way yall relate
if this is a marriage or long term relationship the answer is you need to be tactful and discuss it because it can affect other areas (like the bedroom) otherwise id say leave it be. -
i probably have but i dont have that much stake in other peoples love lives to be honest. lol
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just be more assertive. if she doesn't have experience then she has to follow your lead because you are her experience. so you are setting the tone in that situation. dont make her uncomfortable but definitely assert yourself
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groupie love is sorta like a free cheese platter at a house party. you have no idea who sneezed on or touched it with their grubby little hands.
no thanks, ill pass -
because its a love and advice column.
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the first song i ever wrote that i had an emotional response to is breathe. its on don cusack in high fidelity and it has seriously been one of those songs where i think soemthing sent me the song. cus the words mean alot more to me now than they did when i wrote them.
its a pretty deep song -
my love life is uninteresting. so uninteresting i wrote an album about it...
and btw Laura is doing JUUUST fine :) -
i answered this question on my blog:
http://mcdayjob.com/2010/01/12/dear-don-cusack-the-bff-dilemna/ -
i dont follow the question at all
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um.. amazon got it on sale for $5 but other than that id say just move in with her and share it LOL
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the most creative date idea i can think of isn't creative. Just do something you would do alone but let them tag along. that way it lets them know what you are into and becomes more interactive and fun.
if you like to take photos take them on a solo shoot with you or soemthing. just incororate your routine -
yeah it probably means you are just a warm body filling space. even if she let you beat, chances are you are just a time killer
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