Ninjas all the way!

New Girl and How I met your mother

Kasi may mga tangang umaasa.

Casual sex devoid of any real emotions, except lust prolly. ;)

"Ex-boyfriends are just off-limits to friends. I mean, that's just, like, the Rules of Feminism!" - Gretchen Weiners (Mean Girls)

"Feeling" mo din dati "forever" na diba? Kaya don't worry, lilipas din yan. :)

I"m currently reading TVD: The Return. So..that's it. Haha.

Alam din naman natin ang totoo na may nang-agaw. Yun lang. :)

Because you sounded accusing.

@jcchan511. Kahit warlaloo kami ngayon. Hahaha.

Still pretty normal. As long as there's nothing that triggers the mania or the depression, I'm fine.

Yellow.

Mango, Watermelon and Apple. :)

Meeeeh. Si Owa na naman? Haha. Okay, actually, sya naman nagpauso ng soulmate na yan. Ewan ko. Kasi siguro magkatunog yung nicknames namin; owa-owen. Or maybe because we have something in common such as liking the same band (Panic! At the Disco) and we both love to read novels. All of which I realized after he called me his soulmate. Lol. Basta. Wag na nga kayong magulo. Hahaha.

Because we are soulmates, and soulmates are not meant to be together.

Ugr. Seriously dope. I'm tired of answering questions like these again and again. I hope you guys just quit it. Okay, so here's the deal. I'm going to spill everything and I hope it'll be the last time.

Owa and I never crossed the line of becoming a couple, EVER. Maybe we did feel something for each other, maybe it was more than what "friends" should feel for another. I do admit we exchanged mushy and couple-y messages and words towards one another, and there were times when we acted like we really are such a sweet loving couple who didn't care about the world and the people around us. For months it was like that, we just enjoyed each other's company and savored the moment, not really having fancy labels to whatever we had. Let's say we did become more than friends, but we did not act on that proposition alone. Just because you feel something for someone doesn't mean you should always do something about it.

I also admit falling in love with him. If you could only read my blog posts about him, you would definitely say how crazy and obsessed I had been with him. All I ever wanted that time was to be with him and nothing else. Clingy right? But eventually, I got tired of expanding my world to always include him, since he has a life entirely different from my own.

I guess you can say that things never really worked out between us because it had never been "us" to begin with. I think we loved each other so much to the point that we didn't want to complicate our dynamics by getting into the real "relationship" that is bound to destroy the "friendship" that we've already built. In other words, we chose wisely to save the relationship that we know will last longer and work better for the both of us - and that is by remaining friends.

I will always love the guy, but not as much as I used to back then. Before, I thought I can never move on, but as the cliche line says - time heals all wounds, I think I got better with the passing of time. And if you could only see how happy he is now with his girlfriend, I know you'd wish him well too as I do. Besides, I have someone right now whom I know will always love me in the exact same way that I love and trust him and in what we have. :)

Wait, you're ONLY 14 and the guy's 22. SRSLY. I have nothing against May-December love affairs but, don't you think he's too old for someone as young as you are? He can even pass as your brother already! Here's the deal: How long have you known each other? Are you sure enough he doesn't have a girlfriend already? Or he's not pursuing anyone else at the least? Kids your age should not rush into a relationship just because the guy told you he likes you, unless he wants to babysit you for most of the time. :p But seriously, give yourselves the time to know each other better. If he really is that serious with you, he'll wait until you're in the right age that your parents allow you to have a boyfriend (or fifty, whichever comes first). Besides, you're so young. You'll meet more people along the way!

I live in a very [self-proclaimed] Christian country which doesn't have divorce [yet] and the idea of using reproductive health measures [to control the ballooning population of a "third world" nation] is a big question mark up to now. But that doesn't go to say that I am as closed-minded [as the church is] to ideas like the above mentioned that strictly goes against the religious belief of many. To cut this lengthy introduction short [and to answer your question], same sex marriage is not as gruesome as some people might think. I guess we are just not used to a set up like this since we are all born and raised to the fact that a man is created entirely for a woman [and vice versa]. I believe everyone has the right to choose [whether] to get married [or not] with The One they love and who loves them as much - regardless of gender preference/orientation. For Love is a very diversed feeling that cannot be caged up to a single meaning or a simple premise of affection between a man and a woman. It knows no boundaries and I think we should all be open up to the idea that love goes beyond the norm of love itself.

It would be very unfortunate if you start avoiding him and throw away your friendship just because he has a girlfriend right now. You see, romantic partners come and go but platonic friends are surely for keeps. I think you should just temper down your friendship with him; you should know the boundaries of being just a friend and the "thing" that's beyond that. You can't simply avoid him completely because that would just ensue unnecessary curiosity on why you're doing what you're doing and you might just end up telling him the real reason why you're avoiding him - and that is because you're totally in love with him [that is if you haven't told him about what you feel for him in the first place]. It's hard to maintain the friendship with someone you have feelings for, specially if there's someone else involved in your already complicated love story. I know it's hard, but you have to "gradually" step aside to give way to your friend's happiness. You don't want to be the reason of him becoming miserable right? Keep in mind that a girlfriend's greatest rival is undoubtedly her boyfriend's best-est girl friend. So don't cross the line, unless you want to be the bitch who destroys a happy relationship. I'm pretty sure you have friends outside of him; they'd be absolutely of great help. Plus, there are many fish in the sea! Explore your options and happy fishing!

I think it doesn't take a genius to actually know if your partner is starting to fall out love. Infrequent text messages, cold shoulder, the obvious boredom and complete nonchalance all lead to one thing = splitsville.

You're the one who knows your partner well enough to say whether he's just having a hard with his problem or if it's already a completely different thing. Ask, but never accuse. A problem cannot be solved if you both raise your voices and hear nothing but your own qualms. The best thing you should do is to sit down and talk things through. Don't readily assume that he's cheating on you just because he doesn't text you as much as he used to like before (though it can also take account to that but still, you get what I'm saying). Maybe he's really going through a hard time and the last thing he needs is a paranoid and nagging girlfriend. Keep your eyes and ears and heart open to all the possibilities. But once he starts ignoring your 100+ messages and your never-ending phone calls, plus his constant diversion to the topic on hand [which is may I remind you the "being cold and detached for almost all of the time"], then that's the ultimate sign screaming right in front of you - He doesn't want to continue anymore and he's just finding the coward way out of your relationship.

A relationship, whether be it a long distance one or not, will work if and only if both partners are willing to make it work. I myself is in a LDR right now and I can say that it really is hard to maintain because the number one challenge you have to face is the thought of not having him/her near you despite the constant calls and messages you share and exchange. There's this also the issue of trust that even "normal" partners go in to. Once you commit to LDR, you have to put tons of trust and faith in your partner because surely there'll be "temptations" lurking around the corner, but that doesn't entitle you to a justifiable reason to give in just because your partner is physically not around. Once you know how to be contented, you'll get through. Surely, good things come to those who wait. It's only a matter of time for you to be reunited again, and all you have to do is to strengthen your relationship even if you're half a world away from each other.